@im.itzme: being middle child at the family is isn't easy you know why? their are things that they hate from you, like grabe tampo ko SAKANILA ngayun Hindi ko alam pano I open up? I've always wanted to be seen, not have being a favorite. but never the one who fav their is pain that I can hide but, they don't know how to be fair on us💔😔. #middle child middle child #unfair #grandma

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1french_fries2
𝘆𝗮𝗷𝗶 :
who's the middle child in 5 siblings?
2026-06-20 04:00:39
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leilei_014
leilei_01 :
middle child it's not easy!! 🥲
2026-06-18 09:34:46
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ur_gurlkeytiee
k :
I'm tired being the middle child is such a strange feeling, no? para kang laging nasa gitna ng lahat, pero somehow ikaw din yung madalas hindi napapansin. hindi ka panganay na laging may expectations na kailangang abutin, at hindi ka rin bunso na madalas inuunawa, inaalagaan, at pinapaboran dahil sila ang “baby” ng pamilya. ikaw yung nasa pagitan. yung tahimik na espasyo sa gitna. yung anak na natutong umintindi kahit walang nagturo, natutong mag-adjust kahit walang nagsabi, at natutong magpakatatag kahit minsan gusto mo na ring mapagod. ang hirap maging middle child kasi sanay kang ikaw yung nag-aadjust para sa lahat. kapag may kailangan ang isa, ikaw yung kusang umiintindi. kapag may problema, ikaw yung marunong makiramdam. kapag may tensyon, ikaw yung tahimik na nag-aayos kahit walang nakakaalam kung gaano ka rin kabigat sa loob. nasanay ka na lang maging “okay” sa paningin ng lahat, kasi parang iyon na yung role mo. yung maging strong. yung maging independent. yung hindi kailangang kamustahin kasi iniisip nila kaya mo naman. pero ang totoo, napapagod ka rin. napapagod kang laging umintindi habang ikaw naman yung hindi maintindihan. napapagod kang maging available para sa iba habang walang nakakapansin na ikaw rin, may mga panahong gusto mo lang may yumakap sa’yo at magsabing, “okay ka lang ba talaga?” napapagod kang itago yung bigat na dala mo dahil pakiramdam mo wala namang makikinig, o baka kapag nagsalita ka, hindi rin naman maiintindihan. ang sakit minsan isipin na kaya mong i-celebrate lahat ng achievements ng mga kapatid mo, kaya mong maging genuinely happy para sa kanila, pero kapag ikaw yung may naabot, parang ordinary day lang para sa iba. hindi dahil wala silang pakialam siguro, pero minsan nasanay na silang hindi ka bigyan ng extra attention dahil iniisip nilang hindi mo kailangan. kasi sa paningin nila, ikaw yung independent. ikaw yung laging okay. pero hindi nila alam, ikaw rin yung anak na minsang naghihintay mapansin. ikaw rin yung taong gusto marinig na proud sila sa’yo. ikaw rin yung gustong ma-feel na pinipili, na naaalala, na importante. minsan naiisip mo siguro kung ano kayang pakiramdam maging first choice.
2026-06-12 07:34:54
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your.isa.lang
ꇙ꓄ꏂꉣꊰ꒐ꏂ :
being a middle child isn't easy, especially when favoritism is so obvious, you grow up feeling like no matter what happens, your always the one to blame, the one they notice only when something goes wrong, you stay quiet, you understand, you adjust, but it's still hurt, still being overlooked teaches you to be strong on your own, to find your worth without needing their approval, and one day you'll realize you were never the problem you were just in a place that didn't know how to love you right🥺😕
2026-06-08 07:38:08
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itsnot_me307
ynseoul :
based sa experience ko to guys, like I noticed how my mother treated me so different from my sisters, especially when it comes to my older sister, when my sister ask for a new skincare and make ups even if it's expensive my mother will get that for her, but when it comes to me I'm not even asking for anything like one day I came to my mother then I ask her to buy me some art materials for my school but she didn't get it like she's saying that we don't have any money but she afforded the make ups and skincare for my sisters. I just go to my room then I cry because it's kinda unfair she can afford expensive things for my sister but she can barely afford mine, it kinda broke my heart that time, so I just decided to use my own money because I can't bring myself again asking her for my needs... that's why now I'm just saving money so I won't ask again that I can afford it myself...
2026-06-03 03:20:14
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dumpniwengay
ʚ♡⃛ɞ :
ako yung anak na kapag nawala hindi hahanapin, pero kapag may kailangan sila ako yung una nilang tatawagin🙂
2026-06-05 06:18:05
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datskieeeeee0
🎭 :
relate so badd.
2026-05-03 13:30:27
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marizzaaesguerra
shena :
ano tara dare ko wag tayo umiyak sa isang bagay
2026-06-04 14:46:59
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whina7877
:)WHINA(◕ᴗ◕✿) :
Relate 😁,tas tawa² lang pero deep inside nasasaktan pala😁
2026-05-06 14:00:25
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kassiiiiiiiiiiiiiii1
☆ :
yeah being a middle child isn't easy.
2026-06-08 04:54:14
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xandergwapo58
cayden :
I also relate
2026-05-24 05:01:57
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marisse013
fans ni Hana 🙌🏻🙌🏻 :
@😊 oo
2026-05-26 10:38:13
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pukingina_mo2
is3vpr :
NAPAKA RELATE SAKIN.
2026-05-31 14:38:18
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jxcyjean
isn't_jean :
sa mga nangangarao na maging middle child,wag nyo na tuloy mahirap sya :(
2026-05-18 13:14:44
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elle39320
ELLE :
then i suddenly stop caring kasi kahit anong gawin ko i was the one to blame. Ako lagi mali
2026-05-29 04:29:08
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angieleneordillo
MejaranRose2000 :
Hindi ko lang sinunod ate ko hahaa pero ginawa ko naman pinagalitan ako ni Mama ewan ko nalang ba
2026-05-16 11:07:42
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rayb_nnn18
rayb_nn@ :
alam mo ha
2026-05-11 15:23:35
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katevstrsuperior
KATE🪐 :
relate😭
2026-05-08 12:48:15
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denden_lovesu
dennn 💞🤍 :
“especially when favoritism is so obvious.” i hate this line so freakin’ much. ☹️
2026-05-13 07:43:01
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yuji_bothers
@yuu.chan_ :
Salk
2026-06-21 08:14:46
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zanderfidel
zanderfidel :
tama pod[drool]
2026-06-18 16:09:09
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im.itzme
★: :
I just want to say thank you to all of you for supporting me. I also want to share something inspired by one of my supporters. You deserve to be loved and appreciated. We all know that being a middle child isn't always easy. Sometimes you may feel left out, ignored, or start doubting yourself. But please don't let other people's judgments define who you are. There will always be people who appreciate you for who you are. Even when favoritism feels obvious, we keep moving forward and continue doing our best. I hope you won't take this post the wrong way because it was actually inspired by a classmate of mine. She suggested that I make content about this, but I won't mention her name because I respect her privacy. I'm also a middle child, but honestly, I've never felt alone because I have a family that loves me, appreciates me, and supports me. My classmate's situation is different—her parents separated, and because of that, she sometimes feels down, unseen, and ignored by the people around her. To anyone who feels the same way, I hope you remember that your feelings are valid. And I hope that one day, we all find people who truly appreciate us, love us, and make us feel valued. ❤️🥹
2026-06-20 10:06:18
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dreamouse10
xin :
Sakit naman ate:((
2026-05-07 09:33:34
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ifafeme
⋆. 𐙚˚࿔urfav_faye𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
Relate ehh
2026-05-05 15:24:15
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