@dbxhskkdhdyx: #bismillahfyp #4u #xyzbca #fyp #avoidantattachment

ؘ :

dear avoidant, before you choose to love someone, please heal yourself first. it is not their responsibility to constantly face your avoidant side alone. they deserve to be loved sincerely too, bcs love goes both ways.

user :

reading the comment section here, the avoidants and those who has been with an avoidant. all of you are so so strong for facing wtv shi life has been throwing at your face. being an avoidant isnt easy, not that we want to but its just the past traumas and things we’ve been thru thats affecting us. yes, we shld be fully healed from our past before meeting new ppl and we shld leave it all in the past but scars stay while it heals bit by bit and we can heal if you, the non avoidants give us reassurance constantly, stay by our side, and prove our assumptions wrong. when we push you away, pleaseplease pull us much closer. i agree, it is very draining but trust me, once the avoidant is all in and loses their avoidant phase, it will all be worth it. we wanna experience love too, everyone does but the avoidants should also remember to not cross the line. everyone has their limit and if you dont wnna lose you loved ones, slowly put your trust into them and leave the avoidant phase. stay strong people 🤍

littleher :

my love , i don't think you'll ever fully understand how much i love you . i carry thoughts of you in the quietest parts of my day . i look for u in little things. i remember your words , the things u probably don't even realize about yourself . loving you has never been difficult for me , sayang . what is difficult is fighting the part of me that gets scared when someone matters too much . sometimes i become distant . sometimes i go quiet . sometimes i act like i don't care when the truth is the exact opposite . it isn't because my feelings disappear . it isn't because u suddenly mean less to me . it's because i have an avoidant heart that doesn't always know what to do with love when it becomes real . i hate that part of me . i hate how i can miss you desperately and still hesitate to reach out . i hate how i can love you so deeply yet struggle to show it the way you deserve. there are moments when i want nothing more than to be close to you , and then there are moments when fear convinces me to pull away . but if there's one thing i want u to know , it's this , every distance i create is a battle within myself , not a reflection of my love for you . because no matter how quiet i become , no matter how confused i seem , no matter how much i struggle with my own fears , my heart still finds its way back to u . i love you . i always do . even on the days when i don't know how to show it . even on the days when i seem far away . even on the days when my actions don't match the depth of what i feel . i love you more than my fear . i'm just still learning how to stay . saya sayang kamu naa 🤍

🌊si ombak :

i hate this feeling i love him deeply but I'm scare i will hurt his feeling the next minute i said i love you🥺🥺

jia :

i just wanna love you without fear of getting hurt :(

Seketul Kiah :

Its not abt being “avoidant” , its abt prioritising ourselves first. Everythings just tiring

𝒜𝒬 :

sorry, i was never good enough and never the one that fits in even if how many times i tried, i always fail everyone. fail you. to some point, i don't mind if people calling me the stupidest girl ever anymore

léé :

when the feeling of annoyed by them suddenly hit. it hurts more than because i thought i was in love but there i was pulling away. even i had no clue what happened.

iyaan :

Aku benci memiliki masalah keterikatan menghindar karena sebentar kamu adalah cinta sejatiku, sebentar kemudian aku tidak peduli dengan keberadaanmu.

espresself :

memaklumi suatu hal yang tidak perlu dimaklumi itu capek dan sakit bro. buat apa di lanjut kalau selalu nyakitin keduanya? Iyaa mmg kalian butuh cinta, tapi harus sebanding dengan sifat kalian. Cinta itu ga cuma tentang cinta, tapi feedback. Lantas kalau kita selalu memaklumi dan sabar apa yang kita dapat? Selalu hal yang sma dan berulang tanpa henti dan ga tau kapan berakhir? Mending sembuhin diri kalian sendiri. (Pengelaman pribadi selama 3 tahun, berakhir dgn siklus yng sama, dan sdh muak).

Euna⛳ :

I think your existence, but sometimes I want to be alone

fati :

@ؘ: dear avoidant, before you choose to love someone, please heal yourself first. it is not their responsibility to constantly face your avoidant side alone. they deserve to be loved sincerely too, bcs love goes both ways.

H E L A L :

That’s way i don’t do relationships

uti :

org pandai menilai tapi org taktau penyebab seseorg jadi avoidant ni sbb masalalu.

vina :

tmn gue ngira gue ga avo krn bisa longtext, pdhl gue sndri ngrasa gue avo wkwk

erys :

dan gw korban dari si avoidant itu jd berasa kek ga layak dicintai aja, trust issue makin gede trauma gw nambah:) bahkan gw smpe sering nanya, sbnrnya gw kurang apa🙂

k :

el 𐙚 :

° :

I used to be avoidant, but I healed my traumas. Then I met an avoidant person… and guess what? I became avoidant all over again. So please, heal first. If you know you’ll hurt them or mess up their life, just leave them alone.

Sidik :

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