I think these are good questions but if a partner asked if I’d like to be told if they cheated I would suspect that they cheated already
2026-04-15 16:17:42
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Livv Carter :
I’m sorry what? I’m not asking my person if they’re cool if I cheat one time or vise versa…..
2026-04-16 07:39:31
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Cara Picone :
I would have thought I was a “tell me” person, but if it’s just a slip and it means nothing, I don’t need to spiral for the rest of my life about it.
2026-04-15 15:13:28
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Alyra Tansea 🇺🇸💙 :
🎶tell me on a Sunday please🎶
2026-04-15 18:32:11
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Val 🌺 :
Can you make a video about limits and conversions to have if we plan to open our relationship?
2026-04-15 13:47:49
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that.anxiety.therapist :
Reminder that asking these questions (even if the other person doesn’t honor their own answers later down the road) can help you spiral less about “shoulds” if things go downhill - at least you communicated to the best of your ability 🩵
2026-04-15 20:35:45
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madgonee :
i wanna hear what answers you deem healthy !
2026-04-16 03:05:33
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Walking Wonder :
This makes me realize that relationships are too complicated for me. 🤣 I will stay single and happy.
2026-06-11 00:22:34
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Paige :
Ooof just had #4 come to light post breakup. I assumed working through it on my own was better bc they’re already high anxiety and afterwards they told me they would rather have known. Not a bad question!
2026-04-16 01:07:11
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Kristaskrap :
this would have been helpful 35+ years ago. great questions
2026-04-15 19:33:30
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Fox :
I love this. People always think that these things are obvious but they aren't. You have to talk about it.
2026-04-15 13:52:13
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Alyce Niven :
I wish I never knew about my husbands double life. it destroyed our family.
2026-04-23 03:49:14
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Laurzipan :
Just keep in mind these are hypotheticals and real responses may not match up!
2026-04-19 15:01:35
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findingme143 :
The answers likely change throughout the relationship as well. How you feel earlier on, may be very different as you age, have kids, finances become intertwined, health changes, support systems pass away or move.
2026-04-19 08:58:11
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minipodsbyopnrs :
Wowwwww
2026-04-25 04:22:49
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M :
Post-it?
2026-04-16 05:25:16
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Jennifer :
these are great questions that me and my partner should have askes each other at the beginning. it would have saved some heartache during the relationship.
2026-04-15 14:14:56
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Violet Rose698 :
such good questions! 10 year relationship, 16year friendship and we know these answers. we're NOT on the same page lol
2026-04-17 02:31:42
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Jay :
Why am I a turd?
2026-04-16 10:39:59
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✦°•✌︎ KAT ✌︎•°✦ :
Address it Jeff!
2026-04-26 18:24:55
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Kam Berard | Relish Every Vibe :
Honestly, these questions could save a lot of relationships.
2026-04-15 16:22:20
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Tom Foolery :
If someone I was dating asked me any of these questions, I would break up just for asking the questions.
2026-04-15 22:28:09
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Margaret Jones :
My partner and I figured out the answers to these questions the hard way and we have both expresed that we wish we had known to consider them ahead of things.
Full disclosure, we opted for honesty as a road to harmony ^_^
Thanks for this!
2026-04-15 16:12:55
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Jane Doe :
the fact some of these things need to be asked proves to me I don't want a relationship.
2026-04-16 13:31:39
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Lisa :
Excellent questions!!
I actually love using hypotheticals to explore where my husband and I are at on certain subjects. It's always cool to still learn new things about your partner after all these years.
2026-04-16 03:39:52
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