@theramseyonrelatioship: I feel unseen and disrespected in our marriage but, my husband refuses to change. How do I make peace with it? #johndelony #johndelonyclips #drjohn #podcasts #relationships #drjohndelonyshow #disrespected #husband #refuses #peace
it's called habit regression, says he will change, puts in effort, slips back into his old habits. super common and difficult because you have to actively rewire your brain
2026-04-17 12:40:38
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itsjustmeme :
I read somewhere that an argument is an unresolved conversation
2026-04-19 04:22:56
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Sicard52 :
I love how he dissects the bullshit and calls people on it. A true pro
2026-04-16 19:56:50
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user7522001872266 :
Part 2? This is so applicable to my relationship
2026-04-16 12:08:53
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Tiffany :
mine was never a go getter, i planned and discussed and he followed. when id ask him to lead he never took initiative. hes forgotten birthday, anniversary, my stocking was always empty. id get frustrated and instead of saying sorry hed blame me for not seeing what he has done and then called me crazy for getting upset that he got mad at me for being frustrated at what he didnt do that i was specific about but wanted praise for doing something that I didnt need ot ask for. get told that i knew how he was when we got together, i should have known hrs this way. Its my fault he gets so angry and hurtful when i try to hold him accountable. then hr acts like he didnt tell me screaming in my face how much he hates me. and all iv ever done os yell over him why im upset and have NEVER called and said things even close to what he had. but now im the one ruining our and our kids lives.
2026-06-13 17:14:55
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Matt Mingay :
an example would be better than an analogy
2026-05-02 16:10:11
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The Reverse Blueprint :
Part of the problem is the illusion of control over somebody else
2026-06-07 16:05:55
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Dillan :
So basically he doesn’t do what you say.
2026-06-13 18:58:59
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Becky D Holistics :
I was just speaking to my husband about this as an observation..
Woman want the fairytale and the perfect pictures to post on socials about the exciting times such as engagement, marriage, pregnancy, gender reveal, birth of baby #1 then baby #2...
Now you are in the life you committed to, no more big milestones and the man that agreed to all of the events is not looking so good. Life calms down and now you are in the 'getting old together' stage and you look and start the judge the other person for not fulfilling that exciting element.
He is content, stable, trustworthy but what is there to look forward to?
This is the work and where commitment comes in. Accepting each other.
2026-06-07 04:13:49
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Chase Anderson :
Would have loved to hear her answer
2026-04-17 16:13:34
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Kelley Still :
Anyone know which episode of the podcast this came from?
2026-05-15 03:26:43
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sondrahughes3 :
It won’t change
2026-06-03 02:48:47
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Sarah Eshraghi :
She took the words right out of my mouth
2026-05-21 04:47:59
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Karen Fleming427 :
Why is there never a part 2
2026-05-02 02:12:32
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Robin M :
I can't even get mine to admit error lol
2026-04-17 02:02:44
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Tori Hawthorne :
This is my life
2026-04-16 08:50:07
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M_Rocking-it :
I feel is bad statement always not facts feelings!
2026-04-17 10:37:28
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Offshoretrash :
Poor guy
2026-04-23 11:17:39
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Enrique8404yahoocom :
I feel bad for the guy
2026-04-17 18:44:55
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melissaredhead1994 :
I took account of my own BS first… then you both move forward
2026-04-17 11:22:23
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doreentryingahealthylife :
I find it hard to understand how couples work so hard to be unhappy- marriage and relationships are hard work- but communication is key and then it comes to working together to fix things and realising that we both have to change but when you know and have tried so hard and it just goes back to the same thing sometimes unhappyness for years is not the key- children see this an it repeats in their future life- happy parents make better people- because this does change us in to people who we don’t recognise- im not saying end relationships- but we have to really talk no blame just this is the truth how do we come together to be happy again
2026-06-13 19:07:38
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Nick :
It’s her. My god.
2026-04-21 22:23:43
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AmyK91919 :
Mental load is heavy. And we want people to share but we have to accept how they carry it. We have have a common goal. As long as we reach that goal, our paths might be different. It takes me 5mins to wash the dishes. It takes him 20. It takes me 30mins to fold wash. It takes him 5. We have to accept how the other works as long as the intention is accomplishing a happy and clean household.
2026-04-26 19:15:24
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boxerlife603/580 :
mine is a floater too. I'm always directing. he'll always follow no matter what which is cool but im exhausted! it's not enough... I need a leader. I want someone to remind ME to do the dishes or remind ME to take out the garbage. silent repost
2026-04-28 09:34:48
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