xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Wednesday 15 April 2026 16:23:56 GMT
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leahmc_17 :
We had been completely fine, together 8 months planned going to Australia and talked about our future. Then the last few days he was distant so I asked if he still wants to be with me and he said he needs space as he’s really down just now but dosnt want me out his life completely. He keeps saying he dosnt know what’s wrong with him but he can’t be bothered with anyone but he keeps seeing his friends and gets excited about seeing them so I don’t understand what’s happening. and he dosnt even know wjy. But he’s happy to see his friends and go out with them, it’s just me it seems to be. I just don’t get it, I want to give him space but I keep messaging and he’s just started to ignore me
2026-04-18 01:53:50
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209 :
hi! so he ended things, and it’s only been a day since we stopped talking, but the fight prior the parting was like 3 days ago. i just wanted to check up on him but i believe that i should wait for at least a week to pass. is a week enough? and would it be a bad idea to check up on him within this week (less than a week)? i already drafted my message and made sure that the message was just me checking up on him and that im not trying to force him. also, i’ve been focusing on myself and reflecting on everything, from myself and our whole relationship. i feel positive about myself and i’m realizing a lot of things that i should’ve done and want to do to prove to him that i’m working on myself
2026-05-26 12:39:06
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Jonny Blaze :
okay so mine is weird. I was burned out called quits to the 5 year relationship. she chased and I wasn't having it. then she burnt out and now I'm chasing.. I've reached out 1 month no contact, 2 months, then 3 more. still no respose... been broken up almost a year now. but she's blocked me everywhere but my phone number? im so confused.
2026-06-18 00:45:39
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AnothrUserName :
Possible 6th question: What are you UNwilling to change? If you are inflexible with one of the issues, then...
2026-04-15 16:34:22
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Alex Long545 :
Ive answered all of them and I hope she forgives me therapyhas really helped me understand a lot about myself. I was doing better I honestly believe that but I know I wasn't doing enough.
2026-04-16 20:12:08
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G :
No contact is much needed
2026-04-16 00:26:33
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clefairy36_ :
I’m scared of losing all of his love and support the way he made me smile comforted me and listen to me when nobody else would
2026-05-26 21:04:07
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Tiny :
Thank you for these questions, it cleared a lot of the hollowness in my chest. It's my fault that the relationship ended almost two weeks ago, and I was the controlling, hurtful one while it lasted. Now, I'm trying to grow as a person day by day, and I find it easier to hold back my pleads for her to get back with me, and just enjoy the civility we share today. Even she sees that I'm improving, and I'm trying to win her back by giving her space and, as much as possible, focusing on myself and the issues I need to grow from
2026-04-16 04:42:45
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Şîkrî47 :
Should I Write her to wish a happy birthday?
2026-04-16 00:02:25
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Luke Lyons :
I think I can confidently answer every question except for the 5th one
2026-04-16 19:42:56
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a :
what if he’s burnt out out but not the pursuer?
2026-04-22 10:42:43
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Key-ra <3 :
I need guidance in this time, am I able to dm you?
2026-04-15 16:43:12
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🄶RAY :
I first saw the drift when my dad went into end of life care and I was in the hospital all the time :(
2026-05-16 08:03:57
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Luke Lyons :
Could you tell us the difference between burnout and avoidant attachment if there are differences?
2026-04-16 05:28:08
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-15 19:22:51
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Aaron :
😳😳😳
2026-04-21 04:21:04
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