@pamamairani: #1 reason why I was avoidant in my relationships 🫩 #mexicanculture #mexicanparents #avoidantattachmentstyle

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user3147861016611
user3147861016611 :
Yes & now I’m an avoidant 😩
2026-04-16 19:06:31
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19raine72
Ida Lorraine ❤️ :
Yes and now the silent treatment throws me into a panic, my parents wouldn’t talk to me for months. I took this toxic behavior into all my relationships. Healing my childhood trauma one day at a time.
2026-04-15 18:32:08
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lin.daaaa_loves.jesus
lin.daaaa_145 :
Yes and now that I’m adult when someone’s mad at me it hurts my soul
2026-04-15 18:11:47
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angelicalizettee
Angie εїз :
This!! That’s why it’s so hard for me to have confrontation or talk about my feelings 😭
2026-04-17 12:36:31
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user2333000111
user2333001 :
yes & now im avoidant asffff
2026-04-17 01:21:26
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gweyn88
gweyn88 :
Yes and now im in therapy😭
2026-04-16 23:12:54
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yazzzzyyy1
jazzyyy.. :
yeah my mom once didn’t talk to me for 3 months… I was 12
2026-04-16 17:29:01
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cool_raunch
esnoopy :
yep, my mom loves the silent treatment. she would let it go on for weeks. barely acknowledging my presence in the house.
2026-04-15 21:19:11
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bautistm
Mateo :
Ugh I’m now realizing that I do the same thing as an adult
2026-04-15 21:48:15
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ae_lily26
Lily :
Yes. I’m a parent now, and ngl I do this too but because when you don’t know how to regulate your emotions you sometimes say things you don’t mean 😭 so sometimes it’s best to let a few minutes or hours go by. It’s something I’m working on tho
2026-04-15 18:14:09
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ieandip71
ieandip71 :
Yup…. Except my mom never called. I have to be the one to always initiate communication
2026-04-16 12:34:03
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piichii03
piichii98 :
Yes… and now my anxious attachment is crazy. I’m so aware of the slightest change in tone or pace of conversation because that always meant I did wondering wrong
2026-04-18 04:40:01
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forbidden4pple
ash ˚ ༘ ೀ⋆。˚ :
and now i’m anxious and have learn to feel safe in normal silence in relationships
2026-04-16 21:46:21
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either.les.or.none
Joe msma :
pulled a reverse and ghosted them😭
2026-04-18 15:55:59
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_ashleyresendiz
ashley🩵 :
yes. i hate silent treatments. it gets me so upset to this day.
2026-04-17 21:00:58
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mrty678
morthy78 :
my dad would give me the silent treatment for 3 weeks.
2026-04-16 17:22:43
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userrysbzk4zer
user447148 :
Yes and now I’m giving my mom the silent treatment.. boy how the tables have turned
2026-04-18 18:00:14
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codigogo9
chrissy :
yep and if I didn't smile and act happy like nothing happened they got mad and yelled at me.
2026-04-15 21:11:00
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themicaeladiaries
Micaela 💕 :
My parents still do this to this day. I’m literally 34 but I refuse to parent my child this way- we immediately talk about what upset me
2026-04-16 21:24:07
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fingerkneesmuseum
Eevie :
Yes and I’ve struggles for years being avoidant and self sabotaging relationships 🫩🫩🫩
2026-05-15 15:51:28
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_brrrreeeeee
Bre :
Yes. Now I freak out when someone gets quiet or when they shut down during a fight. It irks my soul. I feel like I revert to little me. Now that I’m a mom we discuss things, explain, and then I give them a hug and say I love you we’ll have a better day tomorrow”.
2026-04-17 00:09:53
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sundiserite
elo :
yes and now i’m anxious attachment crazy style 😍
2026-04-18 02:52:47
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michee12367
Miche12367 :
One time my dad didn’t speak a word to me for a month and we lived in the same house
2026-04-17 22:52:13
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theotherbunnny
Sleepy :
before I would measure how mad my dad was at me by the number of days he would not talk to me. my record now is 4 years and still going let's goooo
2026-04-18 04:39:39
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