Sadie Golden
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Wednesday 15 April 2026 22:18:23 GMT
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A big one for me was around dinner time. Everyone is tired, everyone is hungry and I am in a rush against the clock before we are losing our collective minds. One day I realized dinner didnt HAVE to be meat/carb/vegetables. I could serve the veggies 20-30 minutes before the meal. Then no one was "ruining their appetite" with snacks, if they did end up not super hungry at dinner at least they ate some veggies and I could reheat their dinner in a half an hour but at least then I got to cook dinner in peace. It gets easier once you figure out how to avoid being triggered. Kudos to you for putting in the work. It's tough!!
2026-04-15 23:04:53
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Thea :
What helps me through the whining is to model how I want to be approached with a request. I use the exact tone and inflection that I expect, but keep it very simple. It’s taken forever to take effect, but it at least creates a pause for me to take a breath
2026-04-16 15:28:17
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Emily Hall :
I’ve started saying to myself, “They’re just being kids.” This helps because I realized I was getting so triggered subconsciously because I was never allowed to act the way my kids do. I allow them to have emotions and express them which was something I was not allowed to do and was taught is bad.
2026-04-16 03:02:38
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daynedaily :
Whining sends me too and a big one is when the olders are being loud and it’s going to wake the newborn. Today I used your tip of regulating when I’m at a 4-5 or before I get to an 8 or 9 because it’s sooo true that by the time you’re that overstimulated it’s too late
2026-04-16 03:46:12
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Amanda|WFH Nurse|SAHM 2under2 :
Wow I needed this! I thought I was the only one that whining bothers me and sends me. I appreciate your vulnerability and God putting you on my fyp I needed this
2026-05-23 03:29:24
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its_christine_hampel :
Thank you for teaching things we can do to ourselves - to fix ourselves. Not just trying to teach our kids to be different
2026-04-16 00:50:02
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dawanaguice :
I felt this so much!! What about when the whining is not able to be solved? My 3 year old doesn’t want to brush her teeth? Is this when pick your battles come in?
2026-04-16 14:43:08
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Makayla York :
This is going to be a game changer thank you. Truly
2026-05-24 04:52:19
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Hannah Mary :
Thank you so much for this mate. Heading into a long weekend with 1,2 and 4yo while my husband is away and feeling a bit angsty! You’ve nailed it :)
2026-04-16 11:05:18
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Lindsey Davis :
I start breathing out loud and ask my kids what am I doing and why .. cause mommy is getting frustrated / angry/ overstimulated .
2026-04-17 14:33:34
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Kk4990 :
Keep posting this is helping me so much!! Objectively when I take a step back can be like this is not a big deal, but in the moment i will be on fire for no reason
2026-04-16 13:18:21
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Candace Renee :
Love your content, it’s helping me
2026-04-27 00:05:51
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jolene_starnesj :
I’m struggling with this lately and I hate it. Gonna try this trick. Thank you for sharing
2026-04-16 18:56:33
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Zahava986 :
I love this
2026-05-08 14:29:04
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KateSm0811 :
This is such solid advice, I’m going to try this! Ty
2026-04-16 00:37:44
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Julieeeee :
I am always running from the bearrrrrrrrr
2026-04-16 18:18:01
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alyssawydd :
God bless sister Jesus loves you always this is so helpful!! You got The Lords glow to you
2026-04-16 04:38:55
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eri :
Love this 🦋
2026-04-18 00:08:16
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Kayla Coppock | Travel Advisor :
I love this advice. My problem is when the whining or crying seems to be for absolutely NO REASON and I’m just like CAN YOU NOT
2026-04-16 07:04:01
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Adrianna :
Trying this tomorrow! 18 mo old cries constantly and my 4 yo is so emotional and I’m losing my crap daily
2026-06-05 01:42:01
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Dianna Pommer :
I love your content and relate to it very much. Are you utilizing medication also?
2026-05-05 11:07:57
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libby :
What if I feel like he’s just doing it to bug me or does things on purpose ? I’m a single mom to a 21 month old and I’m so exhausted and don’t even know what to do anymore. He only acts out or bad tantrums with me. With his dad, at daycare and with others he doesn’t act like that. I tell myself it’s just the age and I know that’s probably true. But how do I ignore the behavior and still make sure he turns into a respectful kind boy?
2026-04-16 03:10:51
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