@therealniccoy: Self-abandonment doesn’t always look loud. Sometimes it looks like: saying yes when you mean no, staying when your body is asking you to leave and shrinking to keep the peace. You didn’t learn this for no reason… it kept you safe once. But healing is learning you don’t have to leave yourself to be loved anymore. #selfabandonement #peoplepleasing #fawnresponse #traumahealing #healing

Liss Hege Mørch :

I wish you knew how much your videos mean to me! I recognise so much of who i used to be in them, and being in the middle of a changing process, they are to the point, insightful and encouraging❤️

Diamondforever_3Helena :

You were too much for yourself yet , I love your videos but I’m stuck of the meaning of this?

QUEENSlanderYank :

I needed to hear this 😭👏

Shaikskele :

Zach Latinville :

Fawning is real and after you understand it you’ll recognize it before it even starts.

yea :

whats the opposite of the fawn response? I've been called intense lol

CaliOkie :

This abandonment has served me so well by being able to exist anywhere . The alternative doesn’t feel safe when you don’t have a safety net.

kanevrectj :

“Are you Mad at Me?” This book is about the Fawn response and has helped me understand this response as well as help me break this response and build healthy boundaries for myself. I highly recommend this book if you struggle with this. Thank you so much for your videos!

WriterRiderDreamer :

I had to. My transplant recovery was brutal, so distancing me from my body was necessary

Jarek Boro :

Thank you for your content you do kot even imagine how ur vids help me (diagnosed with auadhd at my 40s )

Rachel :

I'm in the middle of doing exactly this. it's insanely uncomfortable but I'm doing it and I'm so proud of myself. I'm creating boundaries while still showing that I care. I was too much for myself before and escaped in other people's worlds. now I'm breaking generational patterns

Britt |Not your typical Gigi🍃 :

Here is sit, going on 40, & I’ve FINALLY chose my happiness. Now, I’m the bad guy. 😂

MeLuminar🍉 :

voicing the more "negative" emotions is the hardest

RoxanneJonasMD :

Trying to heal

RyanH67🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇮🇪 :

"TICSFFYTC" Not stopping til you use this as a brand for you 😂

Tona Valencia :

just to let you know that I'm watching you from south America, you are making a huge impact! Thank you so much for every single video ✨

JESSMAN :

I'm trying

Earthian [email protected] :

BINGO

@homesteading247 :

yes

🌸Kathy🌸 :

Yess 🎉🎉💥💥

Nicoleferst :

whoa this is me to a T. thank you for seeing me 😢

lisa :

This hit so hard. Thank you, I needed to hear this.

Sarah C :

Winning over your captor is an effective survival strategy - it takes picking up cues from them and seeing only the good - to the point where you almost believe it yourself. Just learned I had to abandon myself to pull it off. That helps with healing. Thank you. 👏

christychristychristy :

Yes 👏🏼 💕✨✨✨✨✨

Staci Jamieson :

Omg I just got cold chills