@therealniccoy: Self-abandonment doesn’t always look loud. Sometimes it looks like: saying yes when you mean no, staying when your body is asking you to leave and shrinking to keep the peace. You didn’t learn this for no reason… it kept you safe once. But healing is learning you don’t have to leave yourself to be loved anymore. #selfabandonement #peoplepleasing #fawnresponse #traumahealing #healing

UnluckyDawgz :

I recommend the book “Are You Mad At Me?” I’m listening to it on Spotify (included in premium). It’s all about the fawn response and helped me realize so much about myself.

CaliOkie :

This abandonment has served me so well by being able to exist anywhere . The alternative doesn’t feel safe when you don’t have a safety net.

Nikki Miller :

Found this in the middle of separation and definitely needed this. Thank you for sharing this is such beautiful, powerful, words!

Liss Hege Mørch :

I wish you knew how much your videos mean to me! I recognise so much of who i used to be in them, and being in the middle of a changing process, they are to the point, insightful and encouraging❤️

Shaikskele :

Zach Latinville :

Fawning is real and after you understand it you’ll recognize it before it even starts.

Britt🍃 :

Here is sit, going on 40, & I’ve FINALLY chose my happiness. Now, I’m the bad guy. 😂

Diamondforever_3Helena :

You were too much for yourself yet , I love your videos but I’m stuck of the meaning of this?

pepz :

I’ve just gotten to a point of realization that self abandonment is what I’ve been doing to myself.

Rachel :

I'm in the middle of doing exactly this. it's insanely uncomfortable but I'm doing it and I'm so proud of myself. I'm creating boundaries while still showing that I care. I was too much for myself before and escaped in other people's worlds. now I'm breaking generational patterns

MeLuminar🍉 :

voicing the more "negative" emotions is the hardest

Roxanne Jonas MD :

Trying to heal

Jarek Boro :

Thank you for your content you do kot even imagine how ur vids help me (diagnosed with auadhd at my 40s )

@homesteading247 :

yes

JESSMAN :

I'm trying

RyanH67🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇮🇪 :

"TICSFFYTC" Not stopping til you use this as a brand for you 😂

Tona Valencia :

just to let you know that I'm watching you from south America, you are making a huge impact! Thank you so much for every single video ✨

Earthian [email protected] :

BINGO

WriterRiderDreamer :

I had to. My transplant recovery was brutal, so distancing me from my body was necessary

ヘミゼニ :

I dont want to be too nice

lisa :

This hit so hard. Thank you, I needed to hear this.

Sarah C :

Winning over your captor is an effective survival strategy - it takes picking up cues from them and seeing only the good - to the point where you almost believe it yourself. Just learned I had to abandon myself to pull it off. That helps with healing. Thank you. 👏

entero73 :

Fantastic videos! Thank you!

christychristychristy :

Yes 👏🏼 💕✨✨✨✨✨

themusemethod_ :

Needed this!!