Ben Cole-Edwards
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Thursday 16 April 2026 16:21:04 GMT
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greenjane :
good enough = they are proud of me😒
2026-04-16 16:30:02
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luc☕️ :
“there’s nothing wrong with you” I’m bawling my eyes out💀
2026-04-16 18:07:03
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mami_a.l :
I've never thought my parents were 'bad parents' but being a parent myself now (10yr old & 9mnth old) has made me see them in a different light. My bare minimum as a parent seems to be 10× more than what they gave/give and yet sometimes I still don't feel like I do enough or am good enough for them 😳
2026-04-16 18:41:07
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Hippopotomum🦛🤷🏼♀️ :
Annual work review = “outstanding” yet I always feel like I’m not doing enough or doing it well
2026-04-16 21:18:08
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sabrinamarie425 :
"what does it look like to be good enough?" why am I sobbing...
2026-04-29 21:29:54
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jamieboertien :
Every time I see you and hear what you say is exactly what I need to hear..
2026-06-13 11:02:39
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mrcdz :
My mom literally told everyone at a family party that I was the disappointment of the family, this was probably 7 years ago. My dad posts how proud he is of all his kids, but never me. I stopped caring 2-3 years ago. I know I’m doing a great job and I make my husband and kids proud every day. That’s all that matters to me now. I barely talk to my mom and I see/talk to my dad probably once a year, if anything.
2026-04-16 17:16:30
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Maria❌ :
I’m 57 now, over 40 odd years of not feeling good enough, until I went bare minimum contact with the parent.
2026-04-16 23:17:19
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Mariam :
I love your videos but I genuinely cannot take them anymore. They heal a part of me each time but also make me realise so much that sometimes is a lot to handle.
2026-04-17 03:42:47
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Marloes :
Good enough = being the same as I am now, but without the voices in my head telling me anything else…..
2026-04-16 17:29:13
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Opheliiaa94 :
Good enough is when I turn into one of my siblings.
2026-04-17 11:33:11
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тяαѕн ραη∂α 🦝卌 :
Thanks Ben
2026-04-17 17:57:48
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Serena_Lyz :
I was never actually told that I wasn't good enough when I was a child, just meant to feel that way at almost every turn. Comments about my weight, about my friends, about how I dressed. Then it seeped into friendships, and they started leaving because I was "too much" for them while simultaneously not being enough. Then my ex cheated and left, and asked me once in a fight, "why would anyone love you?" so there have been feelings of unworthiness and insufficiency in myself ever since. My wife, though, tells me that I'm enough and shows me that I am. I still don't believe her, of course, but there's baby steps in the right direction. Just shows you'll always be enough to those that are meant to be in your life for the long run
2026-04-19 04:41:33
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Mr. Me :
usually l get sad when you call me out like this but this felt relieving to some extent, love the pikachu outfit
2026-04-16 18:01:01
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Jenni.B :
"What does it mean to be 'good enough'?" To be. *makes myself cry*
2026-04-17 19:44:11
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Cheez :
I really love your videos dude, they really help me understanding myself and why i am who i am today. Thank you for all you do man
2026-04-16 16:23:46
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Miss_nevala :
For my mom, enough would be me working fulltime, being married and all that. I am strugling with very bad mental health, BPD being the worst. I can’t work so i am a disappointment for her.
2026-04-16 16:36:02
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Bex Hedges :
I alway connect with your videos but that one hit hard, thank you for doing what you do 🖤
2026-04-16 16:55:45
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Me 🇺🇦 :
Not good enough for my mom: did not marry on time, did not have kids on time, did not get a job that would pay off her bills, did not look shorter, slimmer, have hard temper, and many more. These all turned my life into a sequence of bad choices. Still recovering…
2026-04-16 18:54:17
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codesis :
My mum. Whatever I did it wasn’t good enough. Now when I’m an adult with my own kids it feels like I’m not good enough for them. It hurts. Mind keeps spinning, what could I have done better today.
2026-06-14 20:22:11
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Biggest Fan :
You are the best at getting to the point and blowing my mind.
2026-06-11 04:21:00
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Alyssa :
Who do you feel like you’re not good enough for? Myself.
2026-04-22 13:29:51
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Dez :
having a sibling both parents have as a favorite, say one thing and show another. Actions speak louder than words ever will. It still hurts every time.
2026-04-17 18:33:06
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Lynett Genockey :
I feel personally attacked 😳
2026-05-15 19:47:34
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