@melissadivaristhompson: Most people can spot a toxic relationship but almost nobody can actually describe what a healthy one feels like. As a licensed couples therapist I see this every single day in my work with clients. If you grew up around dysfunction then unhealthy love probably feels completely normal to you and healthy love might actually feel boring or even wrong. In this video I break down exactly what a healthy relationship looks like and the five things you can do so those toxic patterns never show up again. This is the conversation most people never get to have. Save it. Share it with someone who needs it. And if you want to go even deeper take my attachment style quiz💓the link is in my bio. 💓 #healthyrelationship #relationshipadvice #couplestherapist #attachmentstyle #HealingJourney

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R@himisa 🌸 :

How can i let my past traumas not affect my current relationship? what can i also do to improve on being defensive in a relationship?

2026-04-16 22:39:00

Weird & Normal 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦 :

Yes. I went from a toxic one and fell into a healthy one. I did work on myself and I found the best man in the world

2026-04-16 20:46:28

IKR⚡ :

Knowing your non-negotiables helps you choose partners who truly align with your values, avoid unnecessary heartbreak, and communicate your needs clearly. The process requires self-reflection, honesty, and sometimes tough choices—but it builds the foundation for a healthy, lasting relationship.

2026-04-17 00:27:13

tracie_carnes :

Real!💯💯💯

2026-04-25 15:59:55

Hairbyblessedk 💇‍♀️ :

may my God continue to bless you big sis😩..

2026-04-17 21:35:45

rob.ryon :

This explains why people leave stable relationships for familiar chaos.

2026-04-17 03:11:07

nk6n8tr0 :

🤩🤩🤩

2026-04-18 02:29:43

Orgs21 :

😳😳😳

2026-05-05 04:07:54

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