@sarahs.tok: as an older adult who has never experienced physical intimacy, i often feel like im mourning a part of myself that didnt get to exist

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jasc500
jasc :
you absolutely and definitely missed out. I’m so sorry
2026-04-17 07:39:53
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andrewhodgkins.4
Andrew :
“I talk about a variety of things”
2026-04-16 22:04:02
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sal_p8
sal_p :
U dont have to experience something to know its not for u
2026-04-17 02:57:46
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nicole.marie9479
nicole.marie9479 :
You did! Dating at all stages helps us grow and develop.
2026-04-17 03:46:14
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foodsteacher
FarmGirlStrong :
we all morn things we wish we could have experienced in some other way. i don't think it's odd, I think it is very normal
2026-04-16 23:04:09
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user12.ca
User12🇨🇦 :
Yep, I do think you missed out... but that's because I know what you're missing,that's not relevant to you. Do YOU think you missed out? That's the question. I decided in my mid 20s that I was going to get mine. In my mid 50s I can't be bothered with sex but my relationship with my husband is very important to me.
2026-04-16 22:10:37
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gen.x.momma1
Gen X forever :
15 years single and celibate. Trust me when I tell you. You aren't missing much.
2026-04-16 23:20:33
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vank619
Bruh751 :
its never too late
2026-04-17 15:26:58
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shall0w7
nmswwww :
Its not that deap and its never too late 💕💖 why do you care about expectation of others ? I also think that u still learn a lot about yourself being celibate 🫶🏽
2026-04-16 22:15:01
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rei.francisco41
Rei Francisco :
im almost 30 and im missing out mam 😭
2026-04-16 22:29:51
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thegibbs
Gibbler :
No. Mourning is grief. It is the most natural thing in the world to want a partner. And when you miss out on that, you have loss.
2026-04-16 23:46:24
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zackary3618
Zoey1836 :
It is never too late to do something! Try now? Why not?
2026-04-17 05:39:44
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claudiabruno2993
claudiabruno2993 :
Of course it a big loss intimacy and love are so important
2026-04-17 12:53:52
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melisemac
Elise :
I mean ultimately you made choices that felt good for you in your life. They don’t fit the prevailing narrative, but there are an abundance of “normal” experiences that are mutually exclusive 🤷🏻‍♀️so not everyone experiences every typical experience, just one subset of experiences.
2026-04-17 16:28:43
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loise_forrow
LOISE FORROW :
You are a wise lady. Don't beat yourself, it's not worth it.
2026-04-16 22:27:20
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kayt.borealis
Katie 🩷 :
I'm 29 with a body count of 2 because I don't have sex outside of committed relationships, you can learn about yourself and meet people without messing around
2026-04-25 01:57:59
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tallabees
tallabees :
I think you're overthinking this lady. It's not weird but you don't need to do anything at a certain age. You can learn about yourself by being with yourself and exploring feelings about what you want.
2026-04-17 13:22:28
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monica_vpl
monica_vp :
You missed out
2026-04-17 00:34:37
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tsanterelli
TSan :
Girl….you can still do it.
2026-04-29 21:00:46
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theonlygirlinchicago
theonlygirlinchicago :
Honestly that is a flex
2026-04-17 07:36:30
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monicasalcedo77
Monica Salcedo :
It's not weird to wonder about something you've never experienced while everyone describes it as a right of passage or the best time of their lives. Disappointment and heartache change you as a person. I wonder who I could have been if I hadn't spent those years being traumatized.
2026-04-16 22:46:42
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god.loves.you1593
God loves you :
you missed out
2026-05-05 05:55:11
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gosia_konfederacja
gosia_osso :
Nope, its not even cool
2026-04-17 07:19:13
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love_and_chaos_143
Luisa :
I waited until I was 19. You learn about yourself through self exploration, you still have time.
2026-04-18 07:00:47
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