@themarriagereset: No one really talks about this side of perimenopause — what it’s like for the partner who’s quietly trying to hold it all together. You’re watching the person you love change, and you don’t know what’s the right move: speak up or stay quiet, hold tighter or give space. And the hardest part? Feeling like you can’t admit that it’s hard for you too. But here’s the truth: how you show up in this season matters more than any grand gesture ever will. The real work of marriage isn’t in the easy moments — it’s in showing up through the confusing, messy, unseen ones.

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hopewithholly
Hope with Holly :
You can just ask her what she would like or need from you.
2026-04-16 22:09:07
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mistywentland
mistywentland :
Wow you have a wonderful balanced perspective. Thank you 🙏🏻 I have learned something and I appreciate it.
2026-05-15 22:51:43
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sunex88
sunex :
Thanks for the perspective. It is a very confusing time. I choose us. It just takes a bit more love.
2026-04-30 13:52:38
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mitsor
roc456 :
when does perimenopause start earliest?
2026-04-20 18:04:18
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vintagemom3
The Real Surihati Mr Pilot :
My 21 years marriage went through storm during my menopause phase. I was losing my mind, he felt unseen, unwanted. We both went quiet in our own world and became strangers living together. Then all hell broke lose when he had an emotional affair. We are in repair stage now, therapy and lots of talks we never had. We are better than we have ever been
2026-05-13 05:19:41
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carlakayumba
carlakayumba :
Un
2026-05-19 16:39:40
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chef.anne
Chef.Anne :
It’s so important to be communicating w each other. I think it’s just been the last few years that perimenopause has been more openly talked about. She’s being gaslighted by her dr and most her friends think it’s just hot flashes. I understand why divorces are so high during this time. Luckily I explained so much to my husband. I was given some of the worst advice from doctors like you don’t need hormones, just use lube, it will not be so bad or for long, eat less, eat healthier, exercise more- I was eating so clean, working out all the time. All the while I was losing collagen, muscle, bone density and my sense of self. No intimate thoughts or feelings existed at all until finally I begged for all forms of estrogen, progesterone and testosterone. I mean beg with research in hand (this was in last year). My dr wanted to look it up. 2 doctors with a wait it out approach. As a woman you have to fight for what you need, do your own research and let both men and women understand it effects every part of her anatomy from brain, joints, heart, mood, motivation and desire plus at least 200 symptoms.
2026-04-17 00:15:34
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Eieodkdkslspspsos :
My dad he has 2 wives and my mom one of them (i’m from saudi arabia) he doesn’t love us and doesn’t respect us i’m just 17 years old and i tried to talk to him and i tried to fix him but i filled he is 67 years old and i wanna leave him 4ever is this good idea or i can do something better i wanna be the best father for my children can i do that or not
2026-04-18 18:39:18
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Yeshua's Bride ✝️ :
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2026-04-18 19:04:35
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esfox :
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2026-05-08 09:56:17
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