@bustuh: This differs depending on the type of avoidant that you’re dealing with! The first stage for them is relief, ridding themselves of what has caused their dysregulation. Extremely common reactions during no contact though! #nocontact #avoidant
The girl I love has had so many push and pulls with me. I'm definitely an anxious attachment type of person... but it's always hurt when she wouldn't just let me know she needed the space because the two times she told me I did actually give it to her. 😮💨 I really need to learn how to move past her even though I've always seen her as the best thing in life
2026-06-10 04:23:27
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Bri💋 :
He fr told me “I don’t want to be with you” and the day before we were doing so well
2026-04-19 23:03:01
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ZBBY :
So this is every Aquarius
2026-04-17 22:00:36
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Anaya Bomani :
I’m sorry but I did cut off all contact with the avoidant because why would I give them that satisfaction watching me grow and heal? Being a better me than I ever was when I was with them. Plus it’s just time to move on
2026-06-09 17:58:15
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ℜ𝔬𝔵𝔶 :
You guys seriously don’t realize what you’re missing. The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss explains human behavior in a way I’ve never seen before.
2026-05-11 23:14:37
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bree ☽ :
bro i got blocked and i didn’t even do anything 😔
2026-04-17 19:42:07
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its.prettyrare :
Deactivated my social media😩 no access ⛔️
2026-04-17 13:56:01
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BriBri :
Let them. Don’t romanticize anything. It’s just him watching your stories. Nothing more. Stop giving things meaning and get busy with life. Control what you can and let everything that’s outside of you land where it needs to. And post for you not for validation or to prove a point.
2026-04-25 05:48:51
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AhmadTheGreat :
I done fucked up and became an avoidant dealing with an avoidant!! 🤦🏾♂️
2026-06-09 19:26:48
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Brenda S. Rojas✨♥️ :
So we block them ?
2026-04-17 13:14:32
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thanksbutnothanks :
idk I have two therapist now
2026-04-17 11:38:09
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Colton :
Highly doubt that I’m being thought of
2026-05-08 22:26:05
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IcySTL :
Sounds like a headache
2026-04-18 19:41:59
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labubosquishyslime :
Last time we talked i was accidentally rude because of how much i was hurt by him, and now you’re telling me that that convinced him that he made the right choice??
2026-04-17 14:48:25
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caitlyn9x :
if they go no contact or no, whatever and not communicate. just let it be girl honestly. this isnt fucking highschool im so over it
2026-05-13 23:52:45
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Carniqua.S :
Nobody has time for thissssss
2026-05-11 14:23:30
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Catherine Kaay :
Don’t block and move on don’t play into their game … it’s their loss, it’s not your job to fix what’s broken find your peace and move on
2026-05-28 23:28:21
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ℳ.🦋 :
That’s why you block them
2026-04-19 20:43:59
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? :
no contact is literally not real, there's a beginning and there's an end.
2026-05-16 13:40:33
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sexysim :
this is so too much.
2026-06-05 20:07:37
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Rebecca Lazenby :
No one watches stories intentionally, you just flick through, there’s no point overthinking them viewing your story
2026-04-22 04:02:47
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