Codependency Kate
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The mom DID NOT say she does not want a relationship. The mom said she was really hurt be her actions to go no contact and that she (the mom) is still the same person and that she will still say things that her daughter may not like and that the daughter must decide if she can accept her as she is.
2026-04-18 06:22:08
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Razeena :
I don’t understand, kids (adult kids) are allowed to go no contact and parents are not afforded the same ?
2026-04-18 06:26:48
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idannyguerrero :
I feel like we didn’t watch the same video. The woman said she cut her mom off four years ago, then recently reached back out. Her mom responded that she had already grieved that loss, but if they were going to try again, she wasn’t going to change who she is. She was honest about her behavior and basically said if her daughter can’t accept that, then it’s better not to restart the relationship because she doesn’t want to go through that grief again. That’s actually a pretty thoughtful and self-aware response, not whatever narrative this video is trying to push.
2026-04-18 20:39:41
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My Rescue Animals :
Wrong, you don’t abandon someone for 4 years and come back w demands. Low contact w boundaries is a healthier approach imo. Sending a bday card, Christmas card and a convo every few months is minimal but keeps things open for a possible future
2026-04-18 02:22:36
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☪︎ꂨ𖤓𝓭𝓪𝓷𝓲𖤓ꂨ☽ :
The comments saying the mom was right for this broke my heart. As a no contact daughter, this is my biggest fear and feeling like a broken child again
2026-04-18 00:02:09
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discoman :
The power dynamic does change. At some point, you become an adult, and your relationship with your parents becomes one between two adults. You aren't permanently a child in your interactions with your parents.
2026-04-18 08:57:48
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bug :
The daughter went no contact and the mother tired to keep contact and the daughter said no . Now the daughter comes round and the mom is protecting herself . This is on the daughter
2026-04-18 15:48:52
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user7009174258116 :
Thank you for this. The comments over there are WILD. Commenters do NOT get it 😭
2026-04-17 23:32:43
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Carolyn Anderson :
YOU are 10000 wrong!
2026-04-18 16:49:18
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Kelly Lynn :
Completely disagree with your assessment
2026-04-18 16:15:20
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Moongirl258 :
Many of these comments just don’t get it. Parents will always have the greater power - no matter what age the child is. How devastating for that woman to have her mom reject her. 💔
2026-04-19 13:37:04
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CLH :
You are misstating what the mom said.
2026-04-18 23:39:24
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Jessie :
I think the internets reaction to this woman is insane. Did her Mom hire Justin Baldoni’s PR team?
2026-04-18 09:15:29
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JoDay1734 :
The mom didn’t say that!!!!!!! Get it right !!!!!
2026-04-19 02:17:54
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Ves 26 ) :
Don’t agree , if a child goes no contact with a good parent the pain is unbearable for the parent and it takes a very long time to get over and adjust your life again it’s extremely painful and hard so in the case I feel the parent is protecting their peace
2026-04-18 08:18:38
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Cynthia Gallardo :
Yes, the mom went through five years of heartbreak, she had the right to choose peace.
2026-04-23 00:14:44
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Nightshade :
Stop making double standards. If it’s okay for children to go nc, then parents of adult children can also go nc. Parents don’t have to sacrifice everything, they are also human
2026-04-19 22:37:28
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Lisa.Three :
STOP cutting familit off
2026-04-18 13:35:13
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JustmemyselfandI :
As a parent, I will always be there for my kids. I would always welcome them back so I can’t understand the mom on this.
2026-04-18 17:46:53
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Tides :
That's NOT what the Mom said 🙄
2026-04-19 05:29:04
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whatdidyoucallme :
Her mother didn't say she didn't want a relationship. She said she couldn't have a relationship on the terms that the daughter laid out. She said she couldn't have a relationship and not be able to be herself
2026-04-18 10:56:16
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Dog Trainer Kira :
Here's my 2 cents as a person who went NC with her mother and in turn lost the most important person in my life other than my husband(my grandmother). I have been NC for over 10 years. When I cut my mom off, my grandmother told me that without my mother being invited to things then she would cut contact. And that's a boundary she kept. I did try to reach out. But she made her boundary very clear. That is what this mom is doing. Her daughter cut contact. She did the work to try to see what she could change. She told her that she is still her. And the daughter got upset. The daughter isn't healed from the trauma. The daughter isn't ready. And that's okay. But the mom held s boundary. That's all she did.
2026-04-17 23:39:31
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Deborah Juarez :
I don’t accept that the mother holds all the power over her daughter; the daughter assumed power when she cut her mother off - the mother in no way said she didn’t want a relationship, you need to reexamine what was said
2026-04-18 15:44:38
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pspscilla :
No matter who is right, the right course of action is not to yell and argue with commenters on the internet for over a week about it.
2026-04-18 04:13:36
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conniegaganart 🍁 :
and then there are those of us parents who just won’t allow our children to rewrite history.
2026-04-18 02:43:31
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