@deeploneliness_: it’s not about you not being pretty enough. that’s the part that hurts, but it’s also the part that isn’t true. a lot of the time, that behavior has more to do with habit, lack of discipline, or how someone views relationships and boundaries, not the person they’re with. some people separate what they do online from how they feel about their partner, even if it still feels disrespectful on your end. and that’s where the real issue is. not your appearance, but whether their actions align with the kind of respect you expect in a relationship. because there are people who can be with someone they find attractive and still look elsewhere, and there are people who choose not to out of respect. it’s not about what you lack, it’s about what they choose. and you deserve someone whose actions don’t make you question your worth in the first place.