@healing.out.loud4: Set your boundaries and stand on them. A boundary isn’t asking them to change or stop a behavior it’s saying you keep doing this and you loose access to me. When they ultimately do it again, you don’t have to explain it again. They didn’t forget. You simply stand on your boundary. Simply state they crossed your boundaries and access to you won’t be granted until they change their behavior. If they call you crazy and shame you, devalue you the that shows you, it’s time to choose yourself and start making moves for you.