@goldencar__: avoiding the conversation doesn’t save the friendship, it slowly ruins it. i don’t have a lot of friendship deal breakers but this is one!! when you don’t say what hurt you, your mind starts filling in the blanks and after a while those assumptions feel real. so by the time you finally say something, you’re not even responding to what actually happened anymore, just what you’ve been telling yourself. i’d rather have an uncomfortable conversation than lose a friendship over silence and misunderstanding. say it early and honest. don’t let your thoughts turn into something it was never meant to be. #careya #explorepage✨ #fyp #friendships #real

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kellyundone1
KellyUndone :
Ngl I just be peeping weird shit and don’t feel the need to address it because people know exactly what they doing so I just choose to walk away and go ghost before it goes father
2026-04-18 13:50:30
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_._.syani
𝘛𝘦𝘤𝘩 𝘞𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘚𝘺𝘢𝘯𝘪 :
I confront who i want in my life if i dont i silently cut u off
2026-04-18 13:26:14
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thrive.be
thrive.be :
But are you a friend that CAN be confronted? Because if people can’t tell you the truth, don’t nobody wanna ruin the peace trying to solve a problem that will create more of a problem. 🤷‍♀️
2026-04-18 23:29:52
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chloegirlsays
chloegirlsays :
Friendships shouldn’t be that exhausting
2026-04-19 03:35:48
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justtshellyy
justtshellyy :
Confrontation always leading to arguing it’s exhausting
2026-04-19 06:51:00
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love_fleurette
Fleurette| social commentator :
People have childhood traumas that can cause them to avoid confrontation
2026-04-19 12:17:56
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realltiff
𝖱𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗅𝖳𝗂𝖿𝖿 🫧 :
PEOPLE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY DO/DOING NIT EVERYTHING NEEDS AN EXPLANATION
2026-04-18 20:27:43
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bwealthy888
Bwealthy_888 :
Ppl only address things to friends they want to keep
2026-04-18 19:18:41
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_kendramars
Kendra Mars :
Conversations are for people who want to save a friendship. I don’t. Im not coaching anyody on the fundamentals of decency. Either you’re a kind, considerate person or you’re not. & if you’re not, coo. Im just gonna remove myself from it.
2026-04-19 13:44:37
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freecoconnem
Coco ❤️‍🔥 :
Addressing the issue >> suffering in silent animosity
2026-04-18 04:42:37
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xxx.kala._
mickey :
but i 💯 percent do this cus ik who i can can’t come to
2026-09-16 02:25:18
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aleisha.lynese
Leesh 🇧🇿 :
At the same time, we’re too grown to have to explain to people how to be friends! So yes, in certain situations, I avoid people or cut them off😩
2026-04-18 13:16:34
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betsey1994
𝖇 :
People know what they’re doing most times
2026-04-18 14:27:41
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boujeemarrr
boujeemarrr :
Ngl I don’t confront ppl especially since people are too grown to act like they don’t know what they did.
2026-04-18 16:25:54
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r.i.n.a.h1
Rinah ✨ :
They communicate to those they genuinely like 💀😹
2026-04-18 11:57:41
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boujieahhhoe
boujieahhhoe :
Problem is… when i address it AND express HOW I FEEL then everybody mad. I gave up on friends a LONG TIME ago
2026-04-19 03:12:42
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chanyaxdymond
Chanya :
I only confront who I want to remain in my life, if I don’t, I’ll just leave.
2026-04-19 15:10:59
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user028472891
user028472891 :
cause why you telling everyone but me
2026-06-07 15:41:35
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iam_niyya
iam_niyya :
I don’t mind confronting friends I just hate it when you know they won’t receive it
2026-04-18 14:48:32
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aliyahspeakslife
aliyahspeakslife :
I try to give grace, but I move with clarity. It takes healing to not see confrontation as a threat. Some people avoid it because they’re still operating from hurt. But if you come in love and truth and they can’t meet you with accountability and peace, that reveals the fruit. At that point, you’ve done your part and you trust God with the rest.
2026-04-18 03:28:14
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chocolatechip.91
princesssaucey’ :
im sick of friendships
2026-04-20 05:10:52
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renesme4875
renesme :
lol YALL DONT BE WORTH IT ✨✨I communicate if I think you’re worth it and depending on the issue. Some things are clear character flaws and there’s no level of explaining to excuse it… so idc to hear what your side is. I cut you off and move forward.
2026-04-19 04:47:39
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misskey2u
Keyanna :
Everytime I call People out on stuff they get mad so then we stop talking 😩
2026-04-18 15:30:01
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oohsoochocolate
Oohsoochocolate :
Because how are we friends when you assume the worst in me without asking a question
2026-04-18 21:46:35
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t.rebel_
⚜️T.Rose🌹 :
That’s me ngl. I just leave. 😩
2026-04-18 22:26:55
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