@dadhugsforyoursou: Patterns repeat often forever. Emotionally unavailable people rally become emotionally available without significant effort and work. If you feel you might lean more anxious in relationships, this question is very much worth asking. What if you’d stayed with them? But really. Not the Disney fairytale version. Not the honeymoon period. What if you’d wait around long enough for the shine to come off? Because you’re not stupid. You know how human beings and relationships work. You were obsessed because of the potential that you had imagined for them. You weren’t obsessed with them. Big hug. #breakup #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #Relationship
I’m so glad it’s over even though it’s taken 2.5 years to get to that point and he still pops up in my thoughts but I am so happy I pushed on through. ❤️🩹❤️
2026-04-18 08:03:42
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captainsmithy89 :
I’m two months out I’m still crying but crying less
2026-04-18 08:32:08
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Ixinlite :
Yep, thank goodness it’s not me on the receiving end of his toxic behaviour. I thought I’d be in love with him forever - I know deep down I care a little but I couldn’t ever risk the damage to me at his dismissive avoidance again. All signs point to a direction that couldn’t be more further away from
2026-04-18 06:20:36
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chimammy :
Great!! Thank you!! Are you in Newcastle? X
2026-06-05 10:25:08
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McBride :
you're right.
All those years stolen from me, still hurts. I wish I could just FORGET IT. I suppose I will one day
2026-04-19 13:57:27
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tracebellevie :
I think of him fondly ✨ But then, return my thoughts to me/choose me/choose authenticity over fantasy ✨
2026-04-19 03:17:35
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Account Number :
they were so busy watching TV they had no time for you
2026-04-18 13:31:00
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chelsea.does.it :
he's so right. i can't describe the pain i was in a few months ago. now I'm more than 75 days no contact and I have no desire to even talk to my avoidant ex.
2026-04-21 19:08:58
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58 and starting again.... :
20 years
2026-05-20 10:20:07
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Fe :
Im in pain now for 15 month - is this normal?
2026-04-19 08:08:45
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Ang :
spot on x
2026-05-21 20:18:57
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thedementedshrew :
Amen! The relief I feel now is such a blessing.
2026-04-18 07:33:02
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Maša Cvelbar :
this came just in the right moment
2026-04-19 21:24:48
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MsKez7 :
You speak the truth! Love your content 👍
2026-04-18 23:05:21
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luluashton439 :
absolutely
2026-04-18 06:27:39
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Aswithin... Events&Decor :
powerful and true
2026-04-18 16:47:13
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Heather 🏴 :
Yip I agree 😊
2026-04-18 07:55:03
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Greg Adams :
Big Hug
2026-04-18 14:02:46
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Miek :
I think you are wrong. The love is not gone. It’s still there There is no reliëf.
2026-04-20 06:46:56
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Emjay :
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!
2026-04-18 09:33:00
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Anica Sutevski :
Thank you!! My child is with a predator and she has no autonomy, access to her own money etc. We even enmeshed financially. We were the prey as she was/is. She has been worn down and stuck even though she earns 3 times more etc. People say just leave. It will happen there is hope. He’s still brazen even though he’s been shown up. There is no sense in trying to work them out. We are relieved even though we are not quite there yet. Thank you again and for the women you were raised by.
2026-04-24 02:38:09
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Peeping_granny :
🫂
2026-04-18 06:13:50
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unapologeticallyyoucoach :
💯💙
2026-04-18 15:06:01
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