@softwhiteunderbelly: Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Adam Lane Smith, a relationship coach. Watch the full interview at the link in our bio and tap videos for all of our latest interviews. • • • #softwhiteunderbelly #marklaita #swu #relationships #HealingJourney
Because we want a rematch, and we want to win this time.
2026-04-18 13:04:37
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The✨Healing✨Mama :
Familiar chaos is more comfortable than unknown peace
2026-04-18 19:24:41
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Sarebear :
That HIT HARD! I had the most amazing upbringing but no father and I’ve sort “father” all my adult life and sadly my husband, soon to be ex was exactly what I survived. You’ve flicked a switch, thank you!
2026-06-13 09:12:13
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Dana H61 :
love Adam Lane Smith
2026-04-26 14:19:29
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the Treasure Garden :
we think we feel "chemistry" when what we actually feel is FAMILIARITY.
2026-04-18 17:08:04
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Laila :
“We wonder what’s hidden behind that kindness” 1000000%
2026-04-18 15:49:19
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vacmanfan :
That is one sharp dresser.
2026-04-18 15:13:53
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r0guebear :
I appreciate a person who pauses and thinks before they answer. It’s actually a very powerful thing.
2026-04-19 13:08:25
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Mavix :
“We only know how to survive in circumstances that we have skill for”
2026-04-19 16:04:27
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Latoya Pinckney :
God please release me from the belief /idea/notion as such . Reset my mind , heart & soul to know/seek better .
2026-04-18 12:39:43
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marvinvernon476 :
this is why self awareness is important. its the only way you can deprogram yourself.
2026-04-18 17:52:33
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Tayshon :
“We wonder what’s hidden behind that kindness” hit me hard
2026-04-19 07:49:59
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Juniper🍃 :
how dare you
2026-04-18 20:57:24
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Omar Al-Turjuman :
that suit is amazing, sir. good job.
2026-04-18 19:04:07
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goldensunshinelegend :
“We wonder what’s hidden behind that kindness”
2026-05-02 04:52:12
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Pooky Do° :
idk why tiktok u showing me that it is unrelated thing to me I am my persona ect
2026-06-13 13:08:55
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🩶✨️Katt✨️🩶 :
"We accept the love we think we deserve"
Mr. Anderson -The Perks of Being a Wallflower
2026-04-20 09:14:00
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Idk :
We accept the love we think we deserve
2026-05-09 20:56:26
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Lori 🆘 🇺🇸 :
the blue and brown is POPPINGGGGG
2026-04-19 03:02:01
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. :
“We accept the love we think we deserve”
2026-05-05 09:02:35
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pickled_parsnips :
"When we have not been fed love with a spoon, we learn to lick it off a knife."
2026-04-21 14:35:45
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Berty Smalls :
we accept the love we think we deserve
2026-04-19 02:30:46
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Lulu :
We want approval from the difficult parent. The parent who didn’t love us enough, the parent who was distant, or cold. That’s whose approval we are constantly trying to get. we subconsciously choose someone who reminds us of the parent who did not love us the way we needed, and if we can get that person to love us, then we can feel better about ourselves. Because then it wasn’t our fault. We were worthy of love the whole time.
2026-04-18 20:30:07
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23JD23 :
Familiar chaos
2026-05-14 00:29:14
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Honey Hathaway13 :
When people treat me with kindness, I cry 🤷♀️
2026-04-18 22:24:09
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