@opallauryn: Replying to @Cc Dawn this is unacceptable #patriarchy #men #metoo #relationships #survivor

Choom :

elwyn fanette :

THE_Joey_Show :

Well the orange man said “You get in a little fight with the wife and they call it a crime…”

you :

it happened to me so it clearly can happen

NidžoATX :

I care because I’ve recently been SA’d in a peer group, it’s changed my perspective on my behavior

Nevermore1 :

how do you propose an actual system to account for this?

Emerald girl (taurus) :

Spot on !!! 👏👏👏👏

Kalina :

the thing that both confuses and infuriates me about some people is how they are never able to see themselves in other peoples shoes. no empathy whatsoever. how is that even possible.

scork168 :

😳😳😳

Xx yy zz :

That’s not why. It’s cause they don’t regard women as real humans. They think of us as objects or inferior side characters. They also don’t think sex crimes are actually physically or emotionally harmful. They watch that horror as porn and think it looks great to them. So of course they don’t actually care. It’s disgusting

Lyn0906 :

Absolutely, but also: they think literally anything that transpires between a male bodied and a female bodied person is, at some level, natural and understandable, and anything that happens between two male or two female bodied persons is always, deep down, wrong and unnatural. Adult man grooming a little girl? A man SA’ing a woman? A husband abusing his wife? Forgivable! Two consenting LGBTQ adults? BAD! Even if they won’t admit it, that’s the thought process!

SelinaGeek :

If they view it as a crime, they seem to view it as a property crime, not violent assault. They'll talk about it like the man stole their wallet. We're not human so why would they consider grape and SA a crime against our humanity

Vicky222 :

because men love sex, any time of the day or night. it's all they want and all they care about so to them it wouldn't be a crime, it would be a gift

Safeword :

we really need to be more violent..

Neivy :

I don’t care because it seems no matter what I do it will always be all men so instead of holding my self accountable for them and still getting put in the same category it’s easier to just focus on my own life

mannohneeigenschaften :

blindness is the keyword. as we say today: we live in a patriarchy, a society in which men are overly seen and women are unseen. but here being unseen is not only a flaw, it is a feature! today we say our medicine is blind on one eye, blind for symptoms of women and diseases of women. but this is like that in some area or institution that delivers a welcome example. this is just everywhere. also in our justice system. also in our justice system men are overly seen and women are unseen. men are by far more punished and sentenced by our justice system, while women even get milder sentences for the equal crimes. this also means to be unseen. being unseen is a feature. being unseen means not giving attack surface for extern correction. women are put on that halo.

Batshit_Lady :

💯💯💯Say that in a gay bar fellas!

G :

Ridiculous argument, if that were true the vast majority of the developed world wouldn't have outlawed, many of which outlawed it and attached some of the harshest sentences all while having male dominated governments.

THSEUSNA :

You also don't believe it can happen to men, and that no women can be a perpetrator. That's what gender roles means. That's why is so much more difficult for a male victim to report. You're so close and just when you were about to see it, you turn and went into full hate men mode.