@momonthemove_: Can any other single boy mamas relate?💙 I used to think dating was ONLY about me. What I felt. What I wanted. What I could “work through.” Then I realized…my son is watching everything I allow. The inconsistency. The excuses. The almost-love. And I couldn’t let that become his definition of how to love a woman as well as what I accept today…he might repeat tomorrow. So yes, I walk away faster. Yes, my standards feel different…..They’re supposed to. And no….I’m not dating to find my son a father… he already has one. I’m dating with the understanding that every man around me becomes a reflection of what he sees. #singlemomsoftiktok

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