@melissadivaristhompson: Most couples talk every single day and still feel completely disconnected. The problem is not how much you are talking. It is what you are actually talking about. These are the questions that will tell you everything you need to know about where your relationship really stands. Save this before your next conversation. And if you want to understand why you communicate the way you do, go take my attachment style quiz. The link is in my bio. #relationshipadvice #couplestherapist #relationshipgoals #attachmentstyles #healthyrelationships
1) when do you feel closest to me lately? 2) what’s one small thing I do that makes you feel loved and cared for? 3) what’s something you wish that I understood better about you? 4) when we argue what do you need from me that you’re not getting? 5) whats one thing you don’t want to bring up because you’re afraid it will hurt me? 6) what’s makes you feel emotionally safe with me and not shut down? 7) how do you want us to solve conflict differently going forward not perfectly differently? 8) what does support look like for you right now 9) 10) what’s one thing that makes you feel like you are on the same page as me?
2026-05-08 05:16:35
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Agu :
it's too late
she just blocked me few hrs ago 😭😔
2026-04-19 19:09:44
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Anoushka 755 :
What does it mean if I dont Even care what his answers to these questions are? Is my relationship doomed?
2026-04-21 13:37:36
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Meghan :
I don't even know how to answer these for myself 💀
2026-04-26 17:08:03
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Bolt3121 :
I’ve tried asking questions like this to my girlfriend… she hates these questions
2026-05-17 21:48:00
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Blackhawk_004 :
What’s it mean when I cannot honestly answer any of these questions because I don’t know the answer myself!
2026-04-22 18:58:31
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World Beauty :
These are some good questions.
2026-05-22 18:52:41
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Palesa_Thulo :
this is so helpful but I am unable to save
2026-04-19 12:36:42
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ꨄ𝕡𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕥𝕠𝕞ꨄ👻💕 :
She avoids these kinds of conversations and that’s why we failed
2026-04-20 07:10:24
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Cory ❌️ :
my GF and I have a deck of cards with relationship questions. we go through them approx once a yr. the answers change over time.
2026-04-24 19:33:41
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fgsa2009 :
To much to do with some people it not easy to deal with
2026-04-25 09:32:34
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Stopbysayhey🫶🏾 :
These are hard to answer for myself 😭
2026-05-27 12:06:25
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Yvette Gilbert588 :
These are awesome questions; unfortunately it didn’t work for my relationship. I learn a lot from you. Thank you for sharing.
2026-04-22 23:48:31
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user2221125566258 :
I want to talk to you outside of this PLEASE
2026-04-19 00:54:17
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George Romonsky :
How do I set a appointment
2026-04-25 18:34:25
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Nikki :
great advice!!
2026-05-02 17:51:13
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Beulah1 :
wow 💯 great advise
2026-06-17 12:50:14
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mr k :
she refused to answer 🥺 apparently I should already know
2026-04-28 14:24:32
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Radical water sports :
profound
2026-04-19 23:35:02
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Brian_Murdock :
Again you know everything 🙄
2026-04-21 14:42:26
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מאמנת לזוגיות | מערכות יחסים :
my husband and I answered these questions in our date night - two nights ago, and to be honest - YES this kind of questions is what makes us feel the closest to each other!
2026-04-23 10:59:01
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meeko_mommi 🏳️🌈❤️ :
I love the way you present things. ❤️
2026-04-21 23:01:17
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Clark Swimm 🇨🇦 :
these are excellent👏
2026-04-28 16:05:18
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Haley Jane :
Thank you for sharing ❤️
2026-04-19 04:14:47
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Lerato :
Informative 👌🏻
2026-04-20 09:44:17
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