It’s never personal, it literally has nothing to do with you. They didn’t even consider you when they discarded you., all they can think about is themselves in that moment. And never chase closure cause you’ll never find it. Do not take it personal.
2026-04-19 06:24:41
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haley :
he’s my husband 🥺
2026-06-15 20:39:31
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Antonino Rizzo :
My heart is broken. I’ve never experienced nothing like this
2026-04-19 10:41:47
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Maria Obscura :
An Avoidant discard was one of the most painful things I experienced. I didn’t know any better so I waited around….do not recommend.
2026-05-01 03:24:47
195
Olive :
It’s been a month. It gets better. I’m happier now.
2026-04-21 02:06:05
1007
carrà.mel :
I have never felt anything this intense and painful. Period. I didn’t even know feelings like this existed.🤲🏼
2026-04-19 14:06:50
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🌹PRINCESS🌹 :
Sooo I discarded the avoidant . I hope he doesn’t hate me 🥹❤️.
2026-05-07 09:31:16
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Stephanie Cates :
I would rather be screamed at, instead of how I was treated in the end.
2026-04-19 12:44:22
533
lai lai ⭐️ :
He ended things with me right after my mom recently passed away…I’m so hurt…
2026-04-28 12:59:57
152
Alexis Malicsi :
That is the most dehumanizing ive ever experienced.
2026-04-23 14:34:09
236
Coin-Op Bot :
I am going through it
2026-04-24 16:51:48
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˚₊‧꒰ა𝓪𝓷𝓰𝓮𝓵໒꒱‧₊˚ :
i feel like i can't breathe
2026-05-09 00:52:39
61
Jaira Meh :
It’s heartbreaking.
2026-04-19 04:01:05
245
Tasha_f_x :
It’s soul destroying
2026-04-19 08:50:40
326
nafiso🌸 :
It hurts when the person you would have fought for chooses not to stay for you.
2026-05-10 04:17:57
56
Big sis Mani 💞 :
Damn. I’ve been going through this for months lol.
2026-06-15 14:08:55
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Vic :
They secretly build a case against you and then present it as the conclusion and never let you have a say in the end. It’s not teamwork, it’s hyper independency.
2026-04-21 12:38:14
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EMH :
This was so validating, ty
2026-06-13 03:26:48
14
SarahJ :
Unfortunately, spot on.
2026-04-18 23:45:53
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☃️❄️Alaskan_Wildling🏕️🏔️ :
It’s awful. My anxious attachment vs an avoidant was the ultimate mindfuck.
2026-05-12 02:37:17
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BodWrites :
Well said. We need to raise awareness of this so that avoidants can get help and heal, and non-avoidants can detect avoidant behaviour and leave before getting discarded (or try to help their spouse heal if they're married/have kids). Currently, most people who were discarded have to figure this all out post-discard.
2026-04-19 12:49:20
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bigbear_chaseme :
He ended it a year ago, but called me everyday, told me he loves me, but kept his distance. I’m so hurt
2026-06-10 00:55:57
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🩶🎃 :
I cried all day yesterday it was brutal this is 3 years on and off with this avoidant I’m done 😭😭😭😭😭
2026-05-03 18:00:17
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