basically sober :
the worst part is that they claim the men are the protectors and “providers”, yet the money that she is forced to be dependant on, is legally always in the husbands name. He has 100% control over the money, house, car, kids school fund ect. Everything’s in his name meaning She has no choice, but to pray that maybe if she walks on eggshells, fawns & people pleases enough, he will choose to be nice to her. Because she knows her and her child’s wellbeing depend on it. Under no circumstance does She have any legal claim for financial protection after divorce.. infact SHE would be obligated to pay, and that’s if she got lucky enough for her abuser to allow her to be freed from him. But he doesn’t even need to go to court to get a divorce. he can just decide he’s done with her and can abandon his family for her to raise with no money. Women are treated like disposable objects. There is no legal obligation to ensure men meet the requirements of “providing”. If there was, it would look like women having a legal right where the court garnishes monthly payments from her husbands pay-check. The persentage she gets should depend on how many children she has with him. Atleast half, but preferably 3/4th if she has more than one child and even that is low considering she has 3 mouths to feed, must provide childcare for 2, which costs more the more she works. While he is only 1 person. 1 mouth to feed, smaller space needed to live. For women, marriage and childbirth is an expectation. The only purpose and worth of a women, which she is forced into and after doing this expectation, she looses her value in society. She’s seen as “used” “ran thru” “no worth” “low value” “dirty” “stank” after even if it was one time of doing it with a man (regardless of weather she wanted to do it or not). And she’s considered “stretched out” and “dirty” after childbirth. Men claim they are “natural providers” but WHO Provides for children 24/7 for atleast 2 decades?? Who becomes a mother figure to even her husband? WHO is chronically unappreciated, unpaid, views as the embodiment of ‘the most ultimate weakness’ while she’s a personal 24/7 chef, cleaner,therapist, escort for a total of 0$/hour.
2026-07-14 18:09:45