Msiza ᥫ᭡ :
1. Always listen to your gut, no matter what. Even in doubt, you’re right or close, but never wrong. 2. Don’t overplay your role in their life, you’ll get hurt. 3. Do not over-forgive. An apology without change is manipulation. 4. Always, I mean always - put yourself first. You’d be shocked at the amount of selfishness a person can have, without even thinking of you. 5. Never center yourself around your partner. Have friends, go out alone, lunch dates, dinner dates, grab your favorite ice cream and watch your favorite movie, go skating, go to a party, see an orchestra - ALONE. Why? So that when you’re no longer with that person, you can still get to enjoy the little things that didn’t have their memory/attachment. And lastly, love love love. All in, withholding nothing. Love is not linear, but it shouldn’t hurt. If it hurts then leave. Always protect yourself. All the best 🫶🏾
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