@journalwithace: i hate my anxious attachment. Full link in bio :)

Diana Udrea :

Because we choose avoidants 😩

Emyro Pomet :

but I'm learning how to control it

Alex :

hard to repost:)

Nin :

i kinda feel bad if i repost this, just know that i was here

emancaesar :

as a anxious attachment , meet someone that avoidant , it's very hurt

nobody. :

I just want him to love me too

nohka1826 :

ik it's getting bad again when you're in my fyp

Nkanyezi🌈 :

Anxious attachment isn't healthy...for as long as you convince yourself that there is no fault with the way in which you show up in a relationship, you will continue to push partners away....the only way to change the pattern is to heal and move closer towards becoming secure.

Pew :

Bash :

the algorithm and timing are crazy

⸸𝕮⛧𝖘𝖕𝖊𝖗 🜏 :

things feel so good when they're great... that sentence alone says it all. I agree with everything you say but I can't get to that, love yourself moment ever. it sucks

roadtocambridgec2 :

Guys I am anxious and I got an anxious: best choice EVERRRR

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silent repost button here🫶🏻

Greenarrow9pun 🇦🇲 :

I truly am the problem

ESCOFX :

Yo, this is crazy

️ :

i am the problem bro

aa :

I hate this

Alex :

It’s not you a problem. You loved wrong person, someone who avoids having conversation constantly or cannot communicate- it’s them problem, not you.

niks :

"but i just wanted that one good thing to just work in my life." this one hits hard.

𝓔𝔃𝔂𝓻𝓪ツ :

i have attachment + avoidant + anxious

a.lxzz :

Dang bro

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morii :

My perspective on this is we acknowledge that being attached is vulnerable. Yes, admitting that the relationship feels like both peace and chaos gives us emotional highs and lows. Because in loving each other, we also face parts of ourselves we don’t fully understand yet. For example, you reach, your partner withdraws— not out of lack of care, but out of different ways of protecting yourselves. in that sense, the distance is not always "rejection", and the intensity is not always "instability". It's simply just two people still learning how to exist in the same space while carrying different fears. And maybe, instead of seeing this as something broken, I choose to see it as something unfinished— something that requires patience, clarity, and growth from both sides. Not just love, but the willingness to understand love in a way that feels safe for both of us. (But it only works if your partner is also trying) that's my opinion.