@journalwithace: i hate my anxious attachment. Full link in bio :)

Emyro Pomet :

but I'm learning how to control it

Diana Udrea :

Because we choose avoidants 😩

emancaesar :

as a anxious attachment , meet someone that avoidant , it's very hurt

Nin :

i kinda feel bad if i repost this, just know that i was here

roadtocambridgec2 :

Guys I am anxious and I got an anxious: best choice EVERRRR

Samhm :

ik it's getting bad again when you're in my fyp

Pew :

𝕮𝖆𝖕⸸𝖆𝖎𝖓 𝕮⛧𝖘𝖕𝖊𝖗 🜏 :

things feel so good when they're great... that sentence alone says it all. I agree with everything you say but I can't get to that, love yourself moment ever. it sucks

nobody. :

I just want him to love me too

unavailabl285 :

i hate my self for being anxious when i’m inlove

Bash :

the algorithm and timing are crazy

Greenarrow9pun 🇦🇲 :

I truly am the problem

️ :

i am the problem bro

Nkanyezi🌈 :

Anxious attachment isn't healthy...for as long as you convince yourself that there is no fault with the way in which you show up in a relationship, you will continue to push partners away....the only way to change the pattern is to heal and move closer towards becoming secure.

niks :

"but i just wanted that one good thing to just work in my life." this one hits hard.

Alex :

It’s not you a problem. You loved wrong person, someone who avoids having conversation constantly or cannot communicate- it’s them problem, not you.

aa :

I hate this

✰ODDIE༆ :

I'm starting to get anxious attachment issues cuz he cheated then me and him broke up, after some days we came back tgt and he was happy at first but at the end he will just be replying late or did not reply and all I think that his cheating again

𝓔𝔃𝔂𝓻𝓪ツ :

i have attachment + avoidant + anxious

a.lxzz :

Dang bro

moldo :

my eyes started tearing up, same brother, same, we'll figure it out one day❤️

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morii :

My perspective on this is we acknowledge that being attached is vulnerable. Yes, admitting that the relationship feels like both peace and chaos gives us emotional highs and lows. Because in loving each other, we also face parts of ourselves we don’t fully understand yet. For example, you reach, your partner withdraws— not out of lack of care, but out of different ways of protecting yourselves. in that sense, the distance is not always "rejection", and the intensity is not always "instability". It's simply just two people still learning how to exist in the same space while carrying different fears. And maybe, instead of seeing this as something broken, I choose to see it as something unfinished— something that requires patience, clarity, and growth from both sides. Not just love, but the willingness to understand love in a way that feels safe for both of us. (But it only works if your partner is also trying) that's my opinion.