@fashionably.divorced: Replying to @Tate Men who are focused on their partner are sure to be good in bed. #intimacy #girltalk #forthegirls #adviceforwomen #spicybooktok

S :

I had two men that were fucking fantastic in bed. It was all about me. Everything they did was about fucking me the best ever I didn’t have to try to do a fucking thing. They were happy pleasing me.

Schtefff 🇨🇦 :

Some men center female pleasure and not in a performative way. They also connect with their partner spiritually and not just physically. They are rare and it doesn’t make them good partners. The worst and most toxic partner I’ve had was phenomenal in bed. It’s never worth the headache honestly. Been celibate for 7 years and never going back.

darkfartoverlord :

They have to be obsessed with me inside and out, it has to feel like they’re trying to learn and know more. In terms of looks I like big everything, big builds with muscles, facial hair and big noses just big everything really 😂😂

Nova Lilly Herbals :

what makes a man good in bed for me is when he really want to please me and pleasure me. He loves my body and loves to see me happy with what he's doing to my body.

countess :

The best I had was an experienced doctor. He knew where everything was and exactly how I would react - and he was a sweet intelligent man. And then there was this charismatic brute, who could talk dirty and throw me around. If only they could be combined....

rhonda :

A man that enjoys foreplay that starts outside the bedroom or wherever the act is going to happen. Lots of kissing & touching & sharing sensual talk. Making sure that I’m all worked up & being sensual & passionate.

Ione Bloom :

When a man indulges in me he pleasures me and himself at the same time. He doesn’t have to think about expanding our time together because it happens naturally while we enjoy each other’s bodies.

OblongPokemonster :

most are not. most only care about themselves getting taken care of. even men I've been with who claimed to care about the female enjoying it, they clearly did not. why do I say this. because when I finally worked up the courage to tell them I never was enjoying it or actually getting to o. they were ego struck. they bitched like I was harming them for telling the truth and did absolutely NOTHING to try to be better for me. and wined until I went back to faking it just to shut their whiney ass up. and they were happy to go along with me faking just as long as it helped them o and not have to worry truly if I did or not. mind you I tried multiple times with the second guy I told the truth to that he wasn't doing what I truly needed right. and telling him how to fix it. each time I was whined at until I went back to faking because his ego couldn't handle the truth and he was too used to thinking he was so great in bed when in reality he's exactly what she explained. a big hairy guy grunting and pounding away thinking he's actually doing something amazing. and literally couldn't tell a true o from a fake one. ridiculous.

Zelda :

I’m bi and I still don’t get it 🤣🤣🤣

PD :

Dude here. I’m V shaped and can crush a grapefruit in my palm. 😎 Just kidding, I’m pear shaped and bald.

Ｌｏｌａ ♡ (COMMS OPEN) :

FIRST also I'm kinda with the lesbian girl

Sonic_Saphira :

Well... we connected with each others needs. He asks if what he's doing is OK. We communicate. He also worships me, wants us to be connected mentally and spiritually... We also have "fun" while doing so, like if there's a funny noise, we both giggle and see if we can do it again. We celebrate each others bodies and emotions and connection.

vincentquiroz636 :

patience 💜

Hansen :

I finally found someone that ticks all my boxes, I need someone who turns me both mentally and then physically. I need a dom like male on bed knows how to take controll over me. A gentle giant otherwise.

Genie In A Bottle :

You’re such a smart lady.

sis Murphy :

enthusiasm

W Howie :

This is all good information. Taking notes... can you do a series on this??.

Alexa_ :

veronika.visti :

A man I dated used to whip his out on his porch facing the main road and sometimes at the store and the men’s change room. He open the door and whip it out thank God I broke up with him how embarrassing.

Wildly Unpopular :

Not sure. I’ve never seen it.

Merlin :

I agree 💯 with everything you said that makes a man good in bed, and with big strong hands 😅

Diamonds :

Exploring it all is the key….

TooManyKmsTravelled :

It’s a shame she deleted this comment- it’s gold!