Mel Robbins
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Sunday 19 April 2026 12:55:17 GMT
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Denis Rench Psychologist :
This is self-abandonment that comes from the fear of being abandoned by others. You become the caretaker of others at the expense of yourself.
2026-05-11 08:23:21
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AmandaShear37 :
ok. now video on how to fix this
2026-05-04 00:54:41
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Popoff :
I’m a caregiver for my wife that’s had ALS for 23yrs. I’m 52 and this is a great analogy. I’ve made it a rule to do something for myself weekly and set vacation goals for me. (Of course I haven’t followed through yet)….. tired.
2026-04-19 13:03:04
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martine.davega :
Yea this is me I need to take care of me 🥰💜 it’s hard when everyone relies on you.
2026-05-13 17:25:51
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Bekah Hunt :
While I love this.... everyone talks about needing to take care of yourself and that's true! But what no body talks about is how. What does that really look like? How do you find the time? Life doesn't stop just because you run out of energy. Really what these videos make me feel is "great, one more thing I have to do". Like I'm constantly busy, constantly keeping everything afloat for my family, but I'm still failing.
2026-05-04 17:43:19
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Fatima Molas :
Im exhausted I need to do better
2026-04-22 14:19:02
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TK With The Tea ☕️ :
Wow. This is my life. I can’t figure out refilling my cup. When all the cups are so important.
2026-04-22 12:12:55
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Mary Marquez8826 :
This was me, I’m 53. I cared for everyone else except for me (putting myself last every time) until the last 3-4 years. It TOOK a toll on my body like I couldn’t imagine. Now I’m living with the consequences of not eating right, definitely not sleeping right overworking my body to the limit for so long. Now I understand that it’s ok to not be perfect and it’s not selfish to put yourself first (which is still hard for me to do at times). Please take care of yourself even though your young and energetic you keep going down that route, with time your body will give out, trust me! Love yourself enough to take care of yourself!🥰
2026-04-23 14:34:52
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nadia_2077 :
i dun give a f anymore not only to humans but the world im jus sooo tired of putting everyone 1st
2026-05-10 05:34:44
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Solecita 🦖 :
And besides if you have a autoimmune disease 🥺🥺 that make you tired all day!!
2026-04-20 14:27:58
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Xdiablo :
Very well explained
2026-05-01 02:16:12
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enyl :
Exactly what happened to me
2026-05-09 11:41:49
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🦇 Fairyshadowhunter 🧚♀️ :
I learnt this hard way
2026-05-10 21:14:01
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Fuels the success mind :
Fix by taking good care of yourself first before any other things you need the energy to keep going before others 🔥
2026-06-18 12:37:00
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Grace D'O-A🦋🐞🤘 :
Spoon theory is just like this with autoimmune diseases…
2026-04-20 21:09:23
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Kimberly❤️ :
My mom is 91 I’m trying to juggle it all alone it’s draining me but I’m honored and I keep going cause she cared for me for my entire life
2026-04-20 10:35:39
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Emily Chang | Social Legacy™ :
Great tangible example of why we need to fill our own cup. You can’t take care of everyone and everything else if you run yourself into the ground. Taking care of ourselves makes us even better at caring for everyone else!
2026-04-21 04:28:23
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J’s Modern Market :
you cannot pour from an empty cup
2026-05-19 15:27:04
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Iza sogh 🖤🇨🇦🖤 :
Facts ❤️
2026-05-10 03:48:09
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Aga :
yes
2026-05-09 12:04:12
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Messi :
omg..... so true. 😔😪😭
2026-06-01 19:40:07
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bimz :
Hmmmmmm.... Who takes care of the caregiver?
2026-05-14 10:12:48
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ericarichtigswick :
I’m tired
2026-05-04 02:41:47
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jithtamang100 :
welcome to Nepal 🇳🇵🇳🇵🇳🇵 ma'am 💗💚🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-30 17:30:50
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Rosie :
Bye everyone. Now let them and let me take care of my self. ✌🏼😘✌🏼
2026-06-06 18:40:08
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