You’d be paying for your own dress if you were a guest no?
2026-04-21 03:46:38
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ruby :
Idk I can understand both sides
2026-04-20 00:05:23
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Clíona 🎀-(Lana’s Version <3) :
Specific dress, bride pays. Any dress, bridesmaid pays.
2026-04-23 00:08:28
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anniecooksitall :
Your real friends would pay for their own dresses especially if it’s at a reasonable price.
2026-04-20 09:15:24
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JJ128 :
If you say to the bridesmaid that it just have to be a certain colour, then I could understand that, but if you’re wanting an exact dress for the bridesmaid then the wedding couple should pay
2026-04-19 17:12:47
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Steph :
“Yes because cost so much” 😑have people forgotten that having a wedding is a choice, and the bride and groom have full control over how much it costs 💁🏼♀️
2026-04-20 01:50:15
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Gaynz :
I think if you are asking people to be bridesmaids for Your wedding then you should pay for their dresses. You are the one asking them to be part of your day, it’s an invite to be part of your special day so they shouldn’t have to pay for tha
2026-04-20 05:51:53
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Angee Friesen :
Unpopular view or not, but if I’m asking someone to be a bridesmaid, I’m gonna pay for their dress. I also only have like 2 friends so it’s only a couple dresses to pay for
2026-04-20 03:55:05
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Sanguine :
It’s my wedding, I’m asking you to be part of it, you’re showing up for me, I will gladly pay for your bridesmaids dress
2026-06-16 17:20:37
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RoseMaryP :
If they want a specific dress they should pay, if you get given a colour and can choose the dress, the bridesmaid should pay cause they can wear it again if they choose the style they like
2026-04-20 09:22:31
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Poppy Jayne :
I wouldn’t dare ask my bridesmaids to pay for a dress that I am choosing for them - that’s just me. If you expect your bridesmaids to pay for their own dress, they should be able to choose what dress they wear. Simple.
2026-04-20 15:28:42
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iris <3 :
Me personally, would rather save up for another year to pay for my bridesmaids dresses, hair and makeup
2026-06-16 14:27:01
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..xx..x3 :
Nope. I had 3 bridesmaids and I paid for their dresses! If you want them to be apart of it then you should pay
2026-04-20 11:23:13
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111FreyaStark999 :
If the bridesmaids are free to choose their own dresses, then yes
2026-04-28 07:03:39
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Bailey Leonard :
I was a female usher in my dear friends wedding (her husband ran out of groomsmen for the amount of bridesmaids she had) but I was still part of the bachelorette and the morning of festivities. I bought my own dress. thankfully I found a style in the color she wanted for $89.
2026-05-02 03:40:08
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Hattie :
If we can choose them, then yes.
2026-04-21 16:28:10
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Charlie :
I offered my bridesmaids a choice and said I'll pay for either your dress/hair/makeup, 3 chose makeup and 1 chose hair
2026-04-30 09:07:34
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Clarisse :
I’m not asking my bridesmaids to pay for their dresses. I’m choosing to get married, so why would I expect my friends to have to pay for it? I know it’s expensive, but it’s my responsibility. My friends have lives and children to pay for, I’d never add to that stress for something that isn’t a necessity!
2026-04-20 12:18:48
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Laura :
Absolutely not. You are asking them to be a part of your day and want them to wear a certain dress you should purchase the dress. I get married in July and have purchaed all the groomsmen’s suits, flower girls dresses and bridesmaids dresses x
2026-04-21 09:09:55
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eaglue0o :
If you want them to swear a specific outfit, then yes. If they’re welcome to wear what they want then no.
2026-04-29 17:34:43
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Em :
It really just depends 🤷♀️
2026-04-30 22:57:39
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User50 :
Absolutely not. You ask me you pay.
2026-04-20 10:26:59
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Réalta 🇮🇪 :
I think it’s a very personal decision. If you’re taking on the role of a bridesmaid, though there is a certain amount of responsibility that comes with it.
2026-04-19 22:12:36
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Paige Mcgough :
I paid everything but alterations x
2026-04-20 15:33:14
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