@abbieherbert: Everyone always wants to know what I do… but all jokes aside, I truly love our dynamic. It might not be traditional, but it works for us. Josh supports and takes care of me in ways that matter, and I do the same for him. We push each other, respect each other’s boundaries, and show up for our family in different ways. I’m the one who wants to be out and about with the kids, and Josh would happily stay home and clean 🤪 I joke about flying to Disney… but I’d choose having him with us every single time 🤍
For all the people in the comments asking what she does to contribute on a daily basis…..SHE IS THE MONEY!!!!
2026-04-19 21:29:25
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Maria Ioannou :
I think that every couple has its own rules and its own rules and that's something that nobody should judge..
2026-04-19 19:33:18
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Nancy :
I’m more impressed over how much you help with his phobias 🤣
2026-04-19 20:23:51
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Bruijnski :
don't share all of his problems that is private 😇
2026-04-19 19:26:32
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A N N A :
If he does all of these chores because he enjoys it then ok but he shouldn’t owe you anything in return for his fears and anxiety
2026-04-19 21:19:02
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❤ :
i think that's AMAZING! i mean, isnt life/love about balance somehow? You take care of each other like you need to, that's another level of understanding.
2026-04-19 19:36:40
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Noam Eitan :
Who cares about "what do you do?" The only thing that matters is what works for you ❤️
2026-04-19 21:25:00
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lisa brown :
Does he mind you sharing his private fears?
2026-04-20 02:06:16
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$ :
Secretly I’m manifesting a Josh for me too! 😁❤️
2026-04-19 19:48:39
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🥝 :
A single dish?? Girl
2026-04-20 13:57:17
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Sweetie :
But you drive him once a year but he does his duties every day lol
2026-04-19 21:21:49
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Emmawolp :
Never washing a single dish is crazy
2026-04-20 02:20:35
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Candice Collins :
I'm the one with that type of crippling anxiety. From our perspective, this type of support is more valuable than anything. 🥰
2026-04-19 22:26:25
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Jasmine Amber :
Same girl! He takes care of us and I take care of him 😌
2026-04-19 20:13:54
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TUI BLUE :
If it works, it works! 💪🥰💙
2026-04-20 01:34:57
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𒄑𒉈𒂵𒈩 :
remeber people, this relationship is not yours, if it works for them IT WORKS *FOR* THEM
2026-04-25 06:50:07
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Ke Ta :
It’s all about being a team and supporting each other ☺️
2026-04-19 20:19:48
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jodiee1997 :
I would drive 15 hours if he do everything else 😅
2026-04-19 22:22:12
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Lauren Greer :
You’ve never done one dish? I mean that’s a lie
2026-04-19 20:05:00
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Faye 💜 :
As long as you’re both making each others lives better, which only you and him would know, who cares what anyone thinks
2026-04-22 05:06:10
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annamariexo1 :
I’m not judging at all I promise but I just want to say that you going to Disneyland or needing an elevator is far fewer between than the daily tasks of cooking/cleaning and such as you mentioned. So just curious if you do anything DAILY to help him the way he helps you?
2026-04-19 23:37:28
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ljr :
You r his blessing and he yours!
2026-04-21 14:57:02
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Emma :
My husband does all the cooking and I do all the DIY.
2026-04-19 19:40:19
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