@cultexpert: Is Mormonism an authoritarian cult? I came to understand Mormonism as an authoritarian cult in the late 1990s. Most of what I heard in the 1970s and 80s was theological criticism, which is not my focus. My perspective shifted when I was invited on Dr. Phil to help two 15-year-olds who had run away from the FLDS. I spent days working with them, helping them understand brainwashing and mind control, and that experience led to further work with Utah and Arizona's Attorneys General and training law enforcement that contributed to efforts to shut down FLDS, resulting in Warren Jeffs being apprehended and imprisoned. I visited FLDS communities, spoke with former members, and was then invited by the Ex-Mormon Foundation to teach my BITE Model of Authoritarian Control to over 250 ex-LDS individuals, many from multi-generational families. As I taught, I saw most people were literally nodding "yes", recognizing the patterns of influence and control. That was a turning point for me in understanding the broader system. Since then, I’ve worked with people leaving Mormonism, including teaching a workshop with John Dehlin, and adding an ex-Mormon perspective into the updated Combating Cult Mind Control. It’s also important to say, yes, this includes modern expressions and communities too, like the “MomTok” Mormon group featured in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. The dynamics of influence and control can show up in different ways, even when they look more contemporary or social media-driven. One of the most interesting developments has been the impact of the internet, which has even led the organization to shift away from the name “Mormon” as more former members began speaking out. It’s a journey, but understanding these patterns of influence, especially for those born and raised in high-control groups, is critical. Head to the link in my bio to learn how to identify mind control and whether you or someone you care about may be in a controlling group.

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Val :
I’m exmo, the BITE model helped me put words to the feelings that I was trying to deal with when I left the church. Thank you so much for your work!!
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arley_quinn :
As a born and raised exJW and a converted exMormon, your BITE model was essential in my deconstruction and resignation from the church, THANK YOU!✨
2026-04-21 21:40:00
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Kelseyingy :
Left 6 years ago and thriving✨
2026-04-21 19:45:04
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Renci :) :
I left at 16. One of the hardest things I've ever done. Not as hard as watching everyone I love stay though.
2026-04-22 16:24:39
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LovePeaceandHippiness :
I left 10 years ago at 41…. One of the hardest & best things I’ve ever done.
2026-04-21 16:10:22
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priya narayan ✨🪷🙌🏽 :
instant click
2026-06-10 14:02:18
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newinkbookservices :
Wait… you made the BITE model? That was YOU? Sir!!! As an ExMormon, I am a HUGE fan, and you helped me in uncountable ways.
2026-04-26 23:18:22
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Cameron :
Your episode on Mormon Stories was so healing! Would love to talk with you
2026-04-21 03:51:28
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Steve :
I'm an 8th generation Mormon. I left 1.5 years ago. the BITE model helped me to understand why I didn't even find out about the issues earlier. thanks for your work.
2026-04-22 22:52:50
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Momma Bear :
Can you please talk to Taylor Frankie Paul , she’s suffering so much .
2026-04-21 13:30:41
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Sandy Hanes :
I left at 30 and am now 37. my relationship with my parents has not been and will probably never be the same now that I'm not part of their inner circle
2026-04-21 16:16:37
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RegisteredMullet :
Would love to hear your thoughts on Scientology too
2026-04-27 02:48:54
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user67 :
I’m not Mormon, but this is an important video. So I watched to the end, commented, liked, and saved it.
2026-04-19 20:24:44
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blueskootie :
💯 I'm a survivor. 30yrs. Devout.
2026-04-21 01:50:16
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Mar :
Left 5 years ago and thriving
2026-04-22 17:54:06
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Sassy Doxie :
Multi generation family here. Leaving was so very hard but the best thing I have done.
2026-04-29 12:37:45
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rachel🪽🎼 :
Seeing this exactly a year after I left✨
2026-05-20 21:01:31
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Maria 🧚🏼‍♀️ :
THE Steve Hassan on my FYP?! You helped me deconstruct so much, I love your work so much, you’re out here saving lives 🥰🩷
2026-04-30 21:53:00
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maddie_best1 :
I left 5 years ago, and thriving ✨
2026-04-28 15:55:28
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exmo_exlds :
As an exmormon who has benefited from your work, sincerely thank you 🙏
2026-04-23 00:18:08
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Jessica Carr :
I left when I was 19 💙
2026-04-21 07:26:39
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Sacral And Irie :
Your book and work helped me deconstruct and recognize what I had experienced. Thank you.
2026-04-29 05:53:06
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Ashley | Trauma Therapist :
Hi Dr. Hassan, I am so happy to see you on here!
2026-04-22 20:24:40
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icarussuneater03 :
Your bite model helped me so so much
2026-04-22 05:59:48
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kinigetahellyeah :
not active since 19 tbh i finally started feeling like my own person when I left
2026-04-22 19:18:44
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