It’s so hard not to judge people, friends who are having kids.
2026-05-22 17:49:26
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indianonya :
I love my kids so much that I’ll never have them.
2026-05-24 01:14:14
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Grace :
I don’t know what my parents were thinking.
2026-05-24 16:36:50
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Juan :
Imagine being perfectly fine with bringing a person into this world for them to grow up and pay bills for the rest of their lives … I loved the way you phrased this because I feel the exact same way.
2026-04-19 22:31:54
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Nu :
Same we are here just struggling 🙁
2026-04-19 22:30:32
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Electric Cat :
Makes total sense. I don't want to bring anyone into this 9-5 grind.
2026-04-20 19:01:11
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OvOLibra :
I didn’t ask for this and I think about that everyday
2026-05-09 10:29:21
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Valerie Mills892 :
I'm childfree, and I wouldn't want a child to have to struggle with jobs and bills and mental health.
2026-06-12 00:53:08
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Roseigh :
Once I become financially free, I’m staying free. Once I’m outta this struggle I will absolutely not ever reintroduce struggle into my life 😂
2026-05-06 05:47:30
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HeyHeyMae :
I feel this so hard!! I love my parents but I don’t know what they were thinking. We are basically born to work ‘til you die and people call you crazy or lazy for saying life shouldn’t be like this 🥲
2026-04-20 18:56:18
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Thats_so_Ashley :
1000% agree sista. I would never want this for my unborn baby! Why would I want them to suffer?
2026-05-04 10:48:29
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Vicky :
It wouldn’t be that bad if they had me with a trust fund but noooooooo nothing at all
2026-05-17 21:10:50
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deliriouslydevoted :
I asked my parents once why they had kids and they said “because they were fun”. So they dragged me into existence cuz it was fun?
2026-05-23 22:57:58
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fart :
my parents didn’t even want kids 😭
2026-05-24 23:43:02
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Ya ya✨ :
I’m so happy I ain’t the only one who feels like this. Now my moma wanna say if she knew we would struggle this much, she wouldn’t have had us…. It’s a little bit too late to have come to that conclusion now huh? 🙄😂
2026-05-22 17:06:16
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Sarah 🩷 :
Verbatim lol
2026-05-24 17:05:50
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Kena Daniels, LMSW, MA :
No maam! I love my children but babyyyy it’s hard.
2026-04-20 01:40:54
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Queen Lala, RN 👸🏾🩷 :
This is literally how I feel about having kiddos at least right now in my life 😭
2026-04-21 03:50:56
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____leelee____2 :
1998 for smh
2026-05-25 19:30:59
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Natasha Orehek :
I have started having those EXACT THOUGHTS lately. Thank you for speaking on this. ❤️
2026-05-25 06:30:33
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Candy Gram687 :
You couldn’t be more accurate
2026-05-24 16:24:54
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Loveheals1 :
No you’re not. I could never imagine my child facing half of the things I’ve had to. I’m 41 and childfree.
2026-05-25 22:26:42
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melissaxorenee :
Not crazy at all
2026-05-23 17:32:10
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Sabina :
I agree !
2026-04-22 14:56:25
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