what’s also uncomfortable is knowing ur friend will still tell their bf all of your business
2026-04-19 22:43:03
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Amy :
I’m not third-wheeling my own lunch date
2026-04-20 17:39:36
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Katie :
right like can I come to date night? can I come on the honeymoon? oh, why not? :(
2026-04-20 16:22:16
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. :
Note for the people who are already married: this also applies to spouses, not just boyfriends
2026-04-20 19:55:08
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soularpunk :
I dont even dislike him, he’s cool, but i want 1 on 1 time with my friend
2026-04-20 20:06:19
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Vic :
This is such an annoying trait. Like be your own person
2026-04-20 07:29:02
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Talulah 🆘🇺🇸 :
Sometimes it's ok to bring them, sometimes it's not.
2026-04-20 13:35:29
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elijah wood’s homunculus :
Separate activities areeee sooooo important 😭
2026-04-20 17:52:15
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Hellen Highwater :
it's also a question of: how often do I get to see this friend without their boyfriend, and how close are we? if I have a close friend that I'm suddenly never seeing without the bf, I lose the ability to have vulnerable conversations with them.
2026-04-20 12:16:18
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Sam 🍉 :
When I planned a birthday dinner with my friends and last minute they roll up with their boyfriends so I ended up the 5th wheel at my own birthday 😐
2026-04-20 21:34:04
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Dania🕺🏾 :
it’s also really awkward when everyone brings their bf to the function and you’re the only single one there 😵💫😵💫
2026-04-20 16:42:59
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Lindsey🆘🇺🇸 :
The worst is when they don’t tell you they are gonna be there. The surprise is the worst.
2026-04-20 14:13:11
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Alex Moccia :
The amount of friendships that have been watered down because of this…..
2026-04-20 14:53:44
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blujay00 :
It’s super weird when people cannot be independent from their partner. It’s really no different than making plans with a friend and they ask if they can bring their own friend who you don’t know as well. It’s not anything personal towards the third party, but sometimes you just wanna be with your close friends and no one else.
2026-04-20 19:51:22
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🦎 eliza 🦎 :
“I hope you don’t mind but i told my boyfriend” i mind a lot actually!
2026-04-21 17:32:02
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rainbowesprimkle :
As an aroace person this drives me CRAZYYYYY
2026-04-20 14:51:22
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user2936347345355 :
the boyfriend dont even want to be there
2026-04-22 20:10:41
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PrettyKera :
as a friend, you do not pillow talk with your man about your friend
2026-04-21 19:09:23
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Jacinntaa :
I have never and will neverrrr invite my boyfriend to a friend hang unless it was pre decided that the hang was going to include the boyfriends. The default is that they are not invited.
2026-04-28 09:56:19
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markus ⸆⸉ ོ :
If youre planning on bringing ANYONE that was not explicitly included in the original plan, you should ask. Boyfriend or not :)
2026-04-22 14:20:06
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taylor ⁸¹ :
Stopped telling my friends things cause they’d just tell their man
2026-04-22 01:53:12
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Mila🌙Moonshine :
If I invite your man, bring him along. If not, assume he is not invited. It’s that easy. Don’t like it, we don’t have to hang out at all and that’s okay too.
2026-04-21 01:21:59
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Mariana Bregieiro :
And then when the friend breaks up with their partner they come crawling back to you
2026-04-27 13:15:02
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RealReading :
My question is why does Joe want to come? Does he not have his own friends, interests, things to do? Is he really going to be interested sitting chatting about my life / our interests / pastimes etc?
2026-04-23 09:38:12
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m :
Everyone just has to learn time and place. I’m NEVER included in group hangouts with my husband and his friends but it is so fun to have everyone and their partners over for parties! My girlfriends and I went to see a play and they asked if I wanted to bring my husband and I said no!!
2026-04-20 00:22:44
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