@fisherzhangs_in_china: I truly sympathize with anyone who's had negative experiences—either as a child or with their own kids—when it comes to how they or their children have been treated. But that won't stop me from trusting people and seeing the good in those around me. What this guy did—ask politely, get permission, and then hold my child for a photo—was, in my opinion, completely innocent. And I'm not going to let anyone tell me otherwise or scare me into doubting myself or people that I believe are good. #china #chinalife #chinese #lifeinchina #chinaexpat
people, it seems, have forgotten what a society looks like
2026-04-20 13:29:20
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IL_Divo_Uk_Fan_Group :
What a sad world we live in now.
2026-04-20 11:15:14
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baiyie🇨🇳🇺🇦🇵🇸 :
My personal explanation: I come from southern China, and the northeastern region of China, which is often referred to by Westerners as Manchuria, underwent extensive industrialization under Mao's rule. Therefore, it is one of the regions in China with the highest levels of gender equality and the lowest rates of trafficking in women and children.
2026-06-08 00:59:30
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user9857870404675 :
哈哈😄我们东北人喜欢把别人的孩子当成自己的孩子😄,给他们一样的爱💕
2026-04-20 17:59:47
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thomasbishop92 :
People have forgotten how to love
2026-04-20 12:16:42
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Richard Ku🇨🇦 :
You asked her permission. 👏👏👏👏👏
2026-04-20 12:44:11
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RSC🇨🇦 :
People are so full of rage for no reason. You and that nice man did nothing wrong.
2026-04-20 12:08:08
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SkyHighThaiSi :
It’s the same here in Thailand. Totally innocent. Ignore those who think differently. You are an amazing father!
2026-04-20 14:55:12
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Cherie-樱桃 :
I lost my child in 2020, so whenever I see a baby I ask if I can carry it and they allowed me😅 I’m always so grateful to be able to experience carrying a baby, an implant memory that is so beautiful being a mother, even for a second, its worth it.
2026-06-06 21:50:33
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smcg :
In the West, children’s interaction with strangers is always a no no because there’s usually something nefarious when a stranger goes up to children. In China it’s very family oriented and innocent. That’s also because the laws are so strict on ppl who harm children.
2026-05-14 11:35:55
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dlove✌🏻❤️🍉 :
You’re a wonderful human and father 🥰
2026-04-20 11:34:43
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butterbeans :
20minute intro makes me not watch the video hope that helps
2026-06-02 23:15:27
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NxKnows :
You ate with him, spoke with him, spent time with him, he was not a stranger. People need to get out and allow themselves (and their children 😱) to meet other humans 💕
2026-04-22 12:08:50
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Little bird :
I think it’s actually a really good lesson for children to learn to communicate with adults and learn healthy adult interactions.
2026-05-04 06:06:00
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markelson53 :
You’re a great father.
2026-04-20 11:42:51
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Julie Hannay-Wilson :
Omg - as if you would do it if you felt any kind of way. It’s so nice to see nice people xx
2026-06-07 18:12:06
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steviemcleanguitar :
Don’t listen to them. You’re a great dad. 👍
2026-04-20 23:28:30
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Anthony Olive :
I remember that video, it was totally innocent and you handled it perfectly. People just love to see evil or bad in any place they can.
2026-05-30 00:54:21
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BIG_koodie🥷🌴🥶 :
Hate always comes from the bottom, never from the top, So no matter what type of content you create even if you’re the nicest person in the world, people are still going to say negative things.
2026-04-20 11:28:27
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dickiebirdy :
I visited shanghai last year and a small Chinese girl came up to me and asked if i spoke English. im tall and blonde, so kinda easy to guess. we had a little conversation. she was learning Englist at school. she translated for her mum and said it was good to practice. at the end of the conversation she asked if her and her mum could have a picture with me as she wanted to take it to school and show them 😂🤗 I thought it was sweet and kinda wish id got her picture too xx
2026-04-20 18:47:56
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7StarHon :
Society is losing it…guys, its a friendly gesture….
2026-04-24 12:57:15
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kk_无名 :
So right of you to bring public awareness of how misinformed people can be. Kuddos!
2026-04-29 21:34:12
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Mathew Hall :
100% agree we need to normalise people just being friendly! The kid was safe with her parents and never in any harm!
2026-05-27 16:56:04
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EVERSCAR :
What a world we live in now … so whose fault is that exactly?
2026-05-27 12:38:33
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tingtang111 :
Glad you spoke up about this 🙂
2026-04-22 21:50:59
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