@missunder5tood: Is this not what you wanted me to do you taught by example did you not? ##childhoodtrauma##mommyissues##motherwound##innerchildhealing
Mine would say, "you're gonna miss me when I'm gone". I started responding with "I've missed you while you were here". We don't talk anymore 🤷🏾♀️
2026-04-22 08:31:16
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None ya business :
Apparently “I’m not one of your little friends” is not the proper response to a parent asking for a favor
2026-05-03 22:39:01
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tracyavatar :
at 18: I will never be your friend, I'm your mother. At 29: we should be chatting everyday , we should be bff's... like please 😂
2026-04-21 02:00:08
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ShaQuandra Allen :
My mom said that to me too and wonder why I’m a bit distant. Like sis 😂
2026-04-21 02:58:21
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Astarion’s Left Ankle 🤫 :
mom told me that when I was 12 and gets pissed when I mention we dont have a mother/daughter bon like she wanted. like ma'am. you dont like me. there's no bond.
2026-04-20 21:49:32
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OMarie :
Both my parents be talking to me as if a reset button was hit when I was 18 and we’re supposed to be buddy buddy. Like … no?
2026-04-22 17:38:58
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aliensupastarrrrr :
I literally told her “I don’t feel like you like me” and she said “I don’t have to like you! You’re my child, I have to love you!” Huh????
2026-04-22 02:11:51
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Sylph :
my mom was INVESTED in me when I was a small child, only to emotionally check out of my life when I hit puberty. now I'm an adult and she's mad that I don't want to be her newest bestie. explaining this to her has been like talking to a rock.
2026-04-21 10:29:20
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Chewie🤍 :
My mom gets jealous of how close her friends are with their daughters 🥴 girl…. I am still not even allowed to have an opinion
2026-05-08 02:08:41
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Seraphina Simone ♏️ :
My mother said the same thing to me as a kid! She’s blocked now 🥰
2026-04-21 01:08:20
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Maja 🌑 | Braider & Writer :
Anything said to me in childhood I say back. Everyone so well behaved now that I went low contact. It’s a rare privilege to speak to me and they know it 😂
2026-05-06 11:42:02
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Imkandiss :
Mine would say “I’m not your friend.” Now look at us 😜. 10 years no contact.
2026-04-22 04:17:35
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China Boo :
my dad used to say "I've got three other kids to care about" and now when I tell him to talk to the three children he cares about he won't even crack a smile it's weird
2026-05-09 18:59:15
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Plslevmealoneimtired🇨🇦 :
I give my mom the same amount of patience, empathy and kindness I got growing up. She doesn’t speak to me much anymore lol
2026-05-07 09:56:22
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KuroKat :
Like when she tried to send me friend request on Facebook. Rejected it and told her ‘Your not one of my friends remember.’ No contact 14 years.
2026-05-05 21:59:54
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scienceblue :
They really don’t like when you flip the script and tell them back all the things you heard from them 😂 don’t dish what you can’t take
2026-05-06 18:31:46
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loveonbri :
Mine used to say the same thing!!!! I no longer speak to her. My bday was last weekend and she didn’t even call!
2026-04-25 15:15:57
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CherryOnTheGo🍒🌎 :
My mom said the same verbatim
2026-04-22 12:10:15
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vodiksutehom :
mine said “when you graduate you’ll move out and leave me and forget about me” and I was so happy that I didn’t have to tell her that myself like yes lady reap what you have sown
2026-05-13 11:24:47
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Emily Green :
traumatize🤘🏻 them 🤘🏻back 🤘🏻
2026-05-11 14:39:57
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Monroe! :
To be loved is to be liked. My mother may love me in concept, but has never really liked the person I am because to become comfortable with me and understand me would require learning she would have to be uncomfortable to do. So she doesn’t do it, and we are on the 29th year of her “not knowing what to do with me” when she’s had all this time to learn.
2026-04-24 17:05:26
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Nfinite♾️ :
Meanwhile, you can't love someone you don't like. Like is literally the prerequisite for love.
2026-04-22 14:16:50
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Arma Divine :
I neither like nor love my parents.
2026-04-21 18:50:33
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Twin :
My mom’s 60th bday tomorrow & im gonna make her remind me cos growing up she always “forgot” my birthday. I do not care about that lady anymore 🤣
2026-04-21 18:52:33
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𝕽𝖆𝖌𝖊 🐈⬛🪽💢🍂🐛🐾 :
My mom always told me "I'm not your friend, I'm your mom" as long as I could remember for discipline and because she just didn't wanna hear about my interests to the point she'd make fun of them. Recently as an adult I said "You're not my friend, you're my parent. I chose not to love you because I only love my friends" and she got upset like girl 😭 YOUUUU didn't wanna be friends with ME! (I'm sorry your mom was similar, you're beautiful btw!)
2026-05-11 22:39:06
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