@kenna_bethany: third base is a scheduling sesh #enm #nonmonogamy #poly #neurodivergent #autism

Hailey Marie Ames :

Might you per chance be a Virgo? 🤣

rachael mailer :

forepl-admin x

kocamanbisincap :

that, plus, plenty of people (including monogamous people) are in fact already doing the "admin". a lot of people have multiple friends, different friend groups, family members that they see separately, coworkers that they hang out outside of work etc. so they're already juggling multiple relationships. they're just unfamiliar with doing that with romantic/intimate relationships, which isn't all that different in terms of logistics except for maybe frequency.

Maddy :

I become so delighted whenever something calls for a spreadsheet

quinn.sidious :

I’m hiring you

Flair Blayr💓 :

a capricorns dream

Laveeza :

preach i also love admin !! but it means I have to do my partners enm admin too because she hates it. someone's gotta keep the ship sailing

pinktictok :

The organisation of that is so hot 🤌

cichlidsteve :

there's 4 in our polycule and our boyfriend is called captain as he leads and does the admin side of things.

Ed Rants :

Icl, it’s grown on me over the years 😂😂

Kay :

The admin is kinda boring but a necessity! And I am full aware that without it I don’t see my partners as often. So when the admin is too much, I sacrifice a few snuggle moments, and that’s okay. It’s all about balance and personal responsibility! We make it work because it’s worth it!

bloodsweatnqueers :

I love the admin too! There’s something so intimate about sitting down with a partner and your diaries/google calendars and making time for each either in the coming month 🥰

kickothy :

I love some good organization

Lena_time :

oh my gosh I love this approach so much

Lori Topper :

I love the admin too! The planning of dates and the anticipation of seeing someone again is fantastic

Abbygella :

No I really agree. I love it.

Emily :

Colour co-ordination 😍

Kimberly Dawn :

Can you do a video of how you do your eye liner 💕 I love it I tried on the weekend it did NOT look this good lol

Sweet_cherries :

zillahcharalambou :

I love you.

Azalea :

I'm a single mom of two. They both have adhd (me probably too) a lot of therapy, training and me working to organize. Aah and let's not forget our dog! and all the weekends the kids have with their father. I think I stay single, if it means more admin. 😂

k3mpy_92 :

I went to my first ENM London event was amazing!

TheDemofox :

Wait, I never thought about this. It is basically the relationship equivalent of playing video games that you have spreadsheets for. 😯🤔