infj here as well. i even tattooed a key on myself. never realizing i have dozens of them what i need is the courage to open a door
2026-05-24 18:12:24
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Katharina.Kristin :
I couldn't agree more. Self awareness is important, but just to a certain point, which may differ for everybody. When you're constantly analyzing every thought, emotion and everything that happens in your body, you're body will be under constant stress and your nervous system will be constantly disregulated. I had to learn it the hard way, that sometimes being a bit delulu is maybe better for you and especially for your nervous system.
2026-05-25 08:26:57
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Joana in Seoul :
the first sentence got me, and then you said “infj” and thought “well that just makes sense” 😅
2026-04-21 06:29:47
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brei :
IT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE 😭 the depth of being self aware can become a rabbit hole without balance. i mean it is such an advantage to know how you function, but it can become a habit of making yourself out of your present point of view where everytime you do something, you make a meaning out of it. then you become busy thinking of every move you do instead of the goal you are actually doing. kinda feels like instead of pouring your mind energy to focus on a task, we pour out double from thinking consciously on how we do it. hyper self aware => self critical => burnout easily lol
2026-06-17 03:50:46
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Sanarah :
Infp here and i never run into another inf at all
2026-07-19 03:18:41
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Hej på dej :
I agree we predict how we react and how we want to live and analyze everything that we don’t just live in the moment, always thinking about something. And I noticed that I have become more bitter and just don’t feel as much excited anymore and it is because of this Self awareness. Life gets more boring i think
2026-05-20 18:29:56
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miialukava :
that’s what I talk about, I don’t want to constantly dig deeper into myself, I don’t want to explain myself all the time or try to identify myself or define myself, but it feels like that’s what the world makes us do??
2026-06-16 18:42:01
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N°T4G3RROR :
I like MBTI, astrology etc but you know what? I do my own charts, pick the traits I want in the MBTI. They are tools, not box I have to sit in, in my head. Also higly suggest reading "Personality isn't permanent" chef kiss book !
2026-06-03 10:58:39
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Міла Таро :
Well that’s an interesting idea but without being self-aware you don’t even know you’re self-aware. Are you trapped? This is so much stop going on. I just need to chill today. I’m taking a day off all this.
2026-06-24 07:36:42
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gregz :
Infy here too, turn to sigma
2026-05-31 06:32:11
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Alba Farré :
Oh that was too personal... Feel you girl (also as an INFJ struggling with the same thing)
2026-04-30 10:24:54
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Sam :
You are so intelligent and well spoken.
2026-05-23 12:01:45
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lumiere_world :
Sooo true
2026-06-25 03:24:08
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Zeya | Writer in Progress :
I had this discussion with my therapist last week. Apparently not everyone is like that 👀
2026-05-09 20:42:45
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ᵖˡˢMISSYLOFTY.SCHUETT :
SAME HERE!!😭🤧
2026-06-19 12:53:54
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Hazel Ann :
such a hard balance
2026-04-20 18:06:15
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zoey :3 :
is this fcking play about us
2026-04-22 20:59:43
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🔥𝕁𝕦𝕟 𝕂𝕦𝕟𝕕𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕚🔥 :
Yeah well. Am too fluid. Built my own paracosm and my mind finally realized what the brain does naturally, infinite relay loop. It’s not a super power, it’s biological. Fighting with your screaming inner child just leaves you so dry and anhedonic that trying to feel is so awkward. It’s just enantiodromia, not rumination. Feel what you are, special. Nothing wrong with that and will never feel wrong about it. This metacognitive approach is known as kundalini in India. I feel found, not lost or stuck. Just camouflaging
2026-05-10 12:38:43
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djan● :
💯💯💯
2026-06-15 22:20:34
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