@transformwithtoska: You cannot shame me into silence. Your insults don’t shake me, they push me to speak louder. The morality police were loud in my comments, but let’s be clear I said culture, not country. Some keep saying “it’s just your man” and “you just didn’t choose well”. Yet millions of women across the world are sharing the same experience. That’s not coincidence. That’s a pattern. And here’s the real question: How are women supposed to choose the right man if they’re shamed for gaining the experience that teaches them what right even looks like? My freedom clearly triggers some of you. Because patriarchy benefits certain men, and anything that challenges it feels like a threat. When I speak about culture, I’m talking about patriarchal cultures. This isn’t me attacking where I come from. It’s me being honest about the pressure many women have experienced within it. And I’ve said it clearly, this applies to many cultures. I’m just speaking from my own. A lot of the anger is coming from men who know exactly what I’m talking about. Because they’ve seen it. In their fathers, their uncles, their friends, their colleagues. You’re not angry because it’s untrue. You’re angry because it’s being said out loud.
Transform with Toska
Region: GB
Monday 20 April 2026 19:12:54 GMT
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MemyVelaBesi :
I’m 52 and Albanian my father came to America in 1968. And he raised me to never listen to rumors and to do what makes me happy . He passed 25 years ago I’m married I have 3 children and 2 grand children and let me tell you I never let anyone’s words control or hold me down . This is how I raised my daughter and my sons . My husband who is also Albanian is always impressed by the fact that I don’t give a shit what others say I live for me and my family 🌟
2026-04-22 19:17:49
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_UNAVAILABLE_247 :
This makes me so sad as a British woman who have been with my Albanian partner for 14 years 3 British children when I visit his family back home I see the amount of control his brothers who have never left Albania have over their wife’s (not physically but culturally) but I have never experienced that with my partner he has always helped and grafted with cooking,cleaning and children too. I was his first girlfriend too when we met, I’m very close with my sister-in-law in 🇦🇱 but I definitely feel sorry for her at times she will never experience the same freedom I have. 🥲
2026-04-23 18:12:00
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Abetare :
thank you for the courage to make yourself this vulnerable — you are the voice of so many women who know exactly what you’re talking about, because they’ve been through the very same thing, and of others whose courage you are giving right now to make that one decision. THANK YOU! Sending you Love and Light 💛✨
2026-04-20 19:57:13
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BERLINER UND SEHR STOLZ!! :
Thank you very much for this perfect journey! U and Leonarda Jonie are the great Albanian women!
2026-04-22 08:40:33
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B3🧚🏼♀️ :
LOUDER SIS LOUDER! THANK YOU!
2026-04-24 14:07:12
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Ri Ze :
„but the way we truly honor that is by loving the parts that are beautiful and also having the courage to change that parts that harm us“ 👏 yes queen
2026-04-22 20:35:50
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kastriot18.Avdiu :
are you single? you should be our queen teuta
2026-06-17 00:48:48
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Transform with Toska :
Follow me on Instagram and bring this energy to my posts there guys! You’re all amazing 😮 ❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-22 15:47:26
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Chimène ❤️ :
I am a proud mixed girllll and I relate to everything you said
2026-04-28 06:45:22
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Vixh :
Well say girl👏🫶
2026-04-21 20:13:01
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Leila💗 :
You are amazing! So proud of you for speaking up🫶🫶
2026-04-21 20:59:34
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hendbdbs3 :
You’re so gorgeous I really thought you were Ai for ages!!!
2026-04-21 17:53:23
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Gerildaa :
Proud of you zemer ❤️
2026-04-21 12:44:53
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Free Palestine :
You are so well spoken
2026-04-23 08:54:12
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Lucy creeple :
Thank you for speaking up❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-24 21:06:02
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Frenky :
Pershëndetjë 😊
2026-04-21 13:38:15
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L&B 🦁 :
I’m starting loving a stranger 😂🥰
2026-04-21 13:44:03
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itsastronova :
Instant follow 😁
2026-04-21 22:26:44
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kueenkh :
QUEEN🫶🫶🫶
2026-04-21 19:41:05
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Grow-Walk/Hike with me. :
Very proud of you 👏👏
2026-04-21 15:12:15
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o3466788 :
you're are amazing god bless you and your kid😘😘😘😘😘💞🤩💞🤩💞💞🤩💞🤩💞🤩🙏🙏😍😍
2026-04-21 11:27:19
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Amanda.calmius :
Inspiration❣️👏✨
2026-04-21 12:26:19
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BTO :
I have once saw you on a train , you are absolutely stunning 🌹😊
2026-04-21 07:38:21
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Haden :
I feel so alone in doing this. Any advice?
2026-04-22 06:05:00
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✨ Claudia M ✨ :
Yes girl! 🥰🥰🥰
2026-04-21 09:48:43
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