@erikagrundon: when the avoidant used to text you all day without hesitation #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentissues #avoidantbehavior #anxiousattachment

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Tuesday 21 April 2026 03:06:16 GMT
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☥𝐅𝐄𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐂𝐀꩜ :
That's not realistic, they would never answer the phone and explain all that
2026-04-22 09:53:07
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sweavsssss
Sweavssss :
Ouch. As someone who dealt with someone who acted like she couldn’t go 4 hours without talking then wanted to control the dynamic, became “busy” and would be cold for days at a time this hits 😂
2026-04-21 05:43:12
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i_just_3xist
Ellie <3 :
Not realistic, the avoidant answered the phone
2026-05-27 09:13:22
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kristinalouise6
Kristina Louise💍 :
This is spot on ! Then I got called “insecure” like dude what
2026-04-27 15:46:23
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sassenach.gr
Regina :
I blocked him after 6.5 years of this nightmare! Block and move forward
2026-04-21 13:24:39
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wildestdreamer063
Wildestdreamer06 :
Mine didn’t disappear for days. He would still call me after work in the evenings but he quit texting throughout the day and wasn’t as affectionate.
2026-04-23 14:09:20
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raisinboyy7
Imogen Kate 🧸 :
Your guys would answer a call? 🫨
2026-04-23 10:21:25
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annalittle23
Anna frazier :
He wouldn’t even answer my call and he ghosted me
2026-04-21 19:09:26
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unknown_user.00yeah
You don’t know me :
Someone who doesn’t make time to text you over 2 days isn’t someone to be wasting your time on. If someone can’t send you 1 text in 2 days then you’re clearly not a priority to them & they’re not interested in you. Move on & find better
2026-04-25 17:26:25
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oceansoflight
Erik Vidal :
They wouldn’t answer. Though two weeks later they might come back and be like “Hey” as if nothing happened. And if you ask them what happened then they’ll be like “Oh, yeah, my phone. You know.” Even though they updated their IG story every 10 minutes over the last two weeks
2026-04-22 21:23:01
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shortbus1982
Nathan Lizzotte :
this hits close to home she mad me feel I wqs crazy for her exact behavior.. it was maddening
2026-04-22 04:05:54
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bobbiedee4
Bobbie- Dee :
mine wont talk on the phone 🤣 so I went ghost
2026-04-24 20:33:50
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jc_gray07
jc_gray07 :
that doesn't work for me I'm out. is what should have been said
2026-04-21 03:40:34
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cassilynlewis93
Cassilyn Lewis :
Damn I’m literally going through this now… and have no idea how to handle it 😅😅😅
2026-05-14 01:33:02
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emmadotjpg
emma📷 :
Legit my ex. We were long distance and he used to want to call to sleep every night and stopped out of nowhere. My nervous system?????
2026-05-05 02:18:32
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margothiel
Bri ✨🌅📸💕 :
The switch up is so real. Going through that as we speak. Told me this morning to worry about myself after telling me he loves me and made plans with me for today. 🤷‍♀️
2026-05-04 02:22:09
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ali_poof
Ali_78 :
You got them to answer the phone ?
2026-05-15 00:35:55
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kathyhand
Kathy 💓 💓 💓 :
27 yrs am done from yesterday the relief is fantastic
2026-04-21 13:05:21
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gkbmomma
Just a widow👀 :
Match that energy!
2026-04-22 00:40:44
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victoriaaanastasia
Victoria Anastasia :
an exact convo I had LOL
2026-04-22 02:08:09
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morgenrot777
Morgenrot :
I'm out
2026-04-21 11:07:28
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agaannacrane
Aga Anna Crane :
Yup they always very busy 😂
2026-06-21 18:22:19
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adventuressnacksandnaps
Hazel :
hahaha I used to get screamed at if I didn't message every half hour or respond within 5 mins... and then it flipped - you couldn't pay me to live like that again
2026-06-04 11:24:18
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