@erikagrundon: when the avoidant used to text you all day without hesitation #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentissues #avoidantbehavior #anxiousattachment
That's not realistic, they would never answer the phone and explain all that
2026-04-22 09:53:07
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Sweavssss :
Ouch. As someone who dealt with someone who acted like she couldn’t go 4 hours without talking then wanted to control the dynamic, became “busy” and would be cold for days at a time this hits 😂
2026-04-21 05:43:12
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Ellie <3 :
Not realistic, the avoidant answered the phone
2026-05-27 09:13:22
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Kristina Louise💍 :
This is spot on ! Then I got called “insecure” like dude what
2026-04-27 15:46:23
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Regina :
I blocked him after 6.5 years of this nightmare! Block and move forward
2026-04-21 13:24:39
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Wildestdreamer06 :
Mine didn’t disappear for days. He would still call me after work in the evenings but he quit texting throughout the day and wasn’t as affectionate.
2026-04-23 14:09:20
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Imogen Kate 🧸 :
Your guys would answer a call? 🫨
2026-04-23 10:21:25
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Anna frazier :
He wouldn’t even answer my call and he ghosted me
2026-04-21 19:09:26
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You don’t know me :
Someone who doesn’t make time to text you over 2 days isn’t someone to be wasting your time on. If someone can’t send you 1 text in 2 days then you’re clearly not a priority to them & they’re not interested in you. Move on & find better
2026-04-25 17:26:25
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Erik Vidal :
They wouldn’t answer. Though two weeks later they might come back and be like “Hey” as if nothing happened. And if you ask them what happened then they’ll be like “Oh, yeah, my phone. You know.” Even though they updated their IG story every 10 minutes over the last two weeks
2026-04-22 21:23:01
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Nathan Lizzotte :
this hits close to home she mad me feel I wqs crazy for her exact behavior.. it was maddening
2026-04-22 04:05:54
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Bobbie- Dee :
mine wont talk on the phone 🤣 so I went ghost
2026-04-24 20:33:50
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jc_gray07 :
that doesn't work for me I'm out. is what should have been said
2026-04-21 03:40:34
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Cassilyn Lewis :
Damn I’m literally going through this now… and have no idea how to handle it 😅😅😅
2026-05-14 01:33:02
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emma📷 :
Legit my ex. We were long distance and he used to want to call to sleep every night and stopped out of nowhere. My nervous system?????
2026-05-05 02:18:32
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Bri ✨🌅📸💕 :
The switch up is so real. Going through that as we speak. Told me this morning to worry about myself after telling me he loves me and made plans with me for today. 🤷♀️
2026-05-04 02:22:09
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Ali_78 :
You got them to answer the phone ?
2026-05-15 00:35:55
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Kathy 💓 💓 💓 :
27 yrs am done from yesterday the relief is fantastic
2026-04-21 13:05:21
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Just a widow👀 :
Match that energy!
2026-04-22 00:40:44
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Victoria Anastasia :
an exact convo I had LOL
2026-04-22 02:08:09
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Morgenrot :
I'm out
2026-04-21 11:07:28
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Aga Anna Crane :
Yup they always very busy 😂
2026-06-21 18:22:19
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Hazel :
hahaha I used to get screamed at if I didn't message every half hour or respond within 5 mins... and then it flipped - you couldn't pay me to live like that again
2026-06-04 11:24:18
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