Schedule the date, touch base a day ish in advanced. No need to text in between. What’s the point of wasting good convo before your date?!
2026-04-21 04:50:38
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Makenna :
Been talking to this guys for 3 weeks now every single day and our first date is on Thursday we literally text all day everyday
2026-04-21 06:32:28
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Olivia :
I mean if he’s not at least checking in once a day and yall aren’t having at LEAST a brief convo daily that’s weird to me. Like yall don’t have to have constant all day convos but at least something
2026-04-21 03:51:37
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Cheryl :
Text everyday but keep it minimum.
2026-04-21 15:28:14
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sara :
I text them the entire time in between the date, there is no rules but if it’s already hard and awkward to keep a conversation on text, I don’t know kinda shows me how the date is going to go when you do meet in person.
2026-04-26 20:16:31
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_Kristian_95 :
In between the first and second date is when the texting gets weird for me😅😅
2026-05-10 08:04:36
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Birdy :
I think it's different for each person, i have a friend who would only text the person to set up a date and then meet and talk on the date whereas i'm completely different i like to have built up a connection before the actual date
2026-04-21 09:48:47
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Artisunn :
Why are these even rules? These are so stupid.
2026-04-22 20:36:10
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James :
Never. It builds a false reality that don't exist yet. You build feelings and emotions towards a person you never met. The outcome more times then not isn't good by texting too much before hand. It makes your brain think you're in a relationship already when your not.
2026-04-22 15:23:55
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Michael_ :
If it’s a first date no just check on a day or two before to confirm
2026-04-22 13:47:56
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Kathrynlouise :
I personally don’t like getting shelfed until the date. Don’t need consistent texting but enough to check in and still show intention 😅
2026-05-06 14:57:56
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Steve :
I feel like if you guys like eachother, why go radio silent.
2026-04-22 18:15:20
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Jamie :
when the date is set I go a bit quieter. but I say that
2026-04-21 10:12:27
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jake24769420 :
There are no rules, everyone’s different, just be yourself and if they say it’s too much, not enough, you make your decision to change or cut them loose.
2026-04-21 17:05:45
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ADV_Fitness :
You are supposed to sleep on the phone together until Friday
2026-04-22 02:09:27
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abcmarija :
Don’t over text before… you don’t want to get attached and then meet and be disappointed.
2026-04-21 06:28:51
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fgbugge :
You haven’t met him before - then no :)
2026-04-22 05:01:02
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Diego 🗿🗿🗿 :
Talk as much as you want to?
2026-04-27 21:50:13
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s :
DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO
2026-04-22 22:05:36
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Bo Thai :
You guys are scheduling dates?
2026-04-22 01:38:41
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BrianGray :
I’m literally in the same boat I met her Saturday and got her number talked more after I got her number. Texted a bit more then Monday night planned a day for Friday. Idk if I should keep texting. Help please
2026-04-21 12:15:20
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Caroline :
From my experience if we don’t text before they end up being too boring for me and I wish I didn’t even go on the date or if we’re texting I find out things that make me not even go on the date anymore
2026-04-21 17:26:25
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Kim Vlogger| Travel & Foodie :
Did you say cuffed ? 😂😂
2026-04-22 02:33:58
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Alton W. :
Minimal investment.
2026-04-22 02:51:46
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Rob - sbcoach❌ :
Of course
2026-04-21 19:23:19
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