@izzylovesanimals: Having this disorder is like begging to be loved but feeling like the most unlovable creature. It’s people taking advantage of you and your triggers. Using them to their advantage. It’s wanting to feel validated but invalidating yourself so much that it’s impossible for either party. It’s lonely. It’s the reason all my friends have or will leave.
“I’m upset today but I still love you” “I just need some time for myself but I still love you” always stops my spiral, wording is so important
2026-05-05 12:44:52
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His emotions are as valid as yours. You can’t burden someone with stuff like this and I know it’s not easy for you but you have to accept it
2026-05-10 09:49:14
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rui⁷ :
the lack of empathy in this comment section is heartbreaking
2026-04-25 18:58:53
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lia :
heal girl
2026-05-09 06:39:15
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Erika :
As someone with bpd I’m not like this anymore. I don’t care who’s is my life or who’s not anymore. Bc no one is worth ur tears in this life. Ppl lack empathy . U should try have this mindset too . It will give you peace
2026-04-23 14:17:46
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chronicallylexieyt :
valid on both sides. i’m sorry for u tho
2026-04-22 18:21:51
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leana. :
i get your girl so much, im so incapable of giving someone space i need explanation right away or i just spiral
2026-04-25 22:57:20
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Ellis 🍓 :
I can see both side of this, them being rude isn’t helping the already existing trauma issues/triggers you’re facing it is reinforcing them, but I also understand how frustrating it can be when you try and try and they never accept the help, the best thing is to go separate ways and I hope you truly heal one day and you find someone you can spend the rest of your life with, god bless you
2026-04-22 10:38:35
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Nico :
only slide 6 is rude, eveything else is reasonable
2026-04-23 23:07:49
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Mai ♡ :
this is somebody’s life rn … (mine)
2026-06-18 23:13:15
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𝓜 ⋆˚࿔ :
it's so hard to live with this curse
2026-04-23 00:33:23
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user00 :
literally from someone that i love too :(
2026-06-10 00:12:38
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svedigenosser🥜 :
I hate how I see both sides
2026-05-12 12:07:13
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minttu 🦇 :
saying you’re burdening them is really vile. sending you so much love from another bpd girl <3
2026-05-24 15:44:47
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Katarina :
Verbatim this has been told to me by my fp
2026-05-27 23:20:15
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Ariana🐰🩷 :
its rough, but his feelings are absolutely valid
2026-05-10 08:13:44
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leanderbrinkman :
He set boundries by telling you he needs space tho
2026-04-25 05:23:52
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𝕊𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕤 𝕤𝕙𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕔𝕒𝕜𝕖 :
Girl I’m bored let’s delete this 💔💔💔
2026-04-22 22:16:09
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terezicka :
i have bpd, i see you..
2026-04-24 04:27:15
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just__CARM 🇵🇭 :
I found my people
2026-05-29 05:05:40
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yum :
how i lost all my friends 😂
2026-06-01 02:16:17
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. :
why would you force someone to be with you though if you can see that uts hurting them even if you love them its obvious they dont want to be around you just ask to be their friend or something you cant force someone to be with you thats wrong.
2026-04-24 13:20:26
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🐠🛟🎣 :
They have the right to need space tho.
2026-04-25 14:14:06
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erin 💋 :
there’s a technique me and my boyfriend do, if one of us doesn’t want to talk about a certain conversation topic then and there then we say ‘pencilled’ and then it means that we have to switch the topic but the person who pencils it in HAS to bring it up and set an end date for it so both people are satisfied
2026-05-15 20:44:47
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