The toughest individual is one who knows how to stand up for themselves and grows up having those boundaries respected as children.
2026-04-21 19:36:15
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Duchannes :
The only way anyone can “emotionally toughen up a child,” is teaching said child emotional regulation and proper ways to resolve conflicts without violence.
2026-04-23 16:36:11
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Megan :
You know what made my kids tougher? Love. Love gives them confidence to be secure in themselves.🫶
2026-04-21 19:02:14
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djoj :
Yup. There also isn't such a thing as gentle parenting. That's just regular parenting and the other parenting is basically just abusive parenting
2026-04-21 18:52:14
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Sam 🍁 :
My families teasing didn’t “toughen me up”, it made me bitter, angry, and unable to tell when someone is making a joke in a friendly way, and being cruel.
2026-04-28 04:03:29
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amelia.IRL :
Because I can not hear “grow some grit” EVER AGAIN. It’s just annoying being dismissed instead of validated and comforted.
2026-04-23 22:35:38
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AnonymousAxolotl :
Your home should be a place you can go to rest and protect yourself from the harshness of the world... Not the preliminaries to it.
2026-05-01 00:12:14
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carryseriesfearfullfun :
keep spitting bars
2026-04-21 21:28:42
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kayla rose🫧🩷💕 :
i love this video
2026-04-21 20:30:40
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amanda_ome :
I don't use tiktok a whole lot, but I've been coming on here mainly for this kind of family dynamics knowledge. You've been helping me understand so much of what I've gone through. I can't thank you enough.
2026-04-29 05:09:16
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h1klq1 :
i disagree, i’m super tough after a childhood of being told i’m too sensitive!!!! 🙂🙂 (just panics internally all of the time)
2026-05-20 12:37:34
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Uhura :
This is how I was raised. I'm clinically diagnosed with GAD and depression.
2026-04-23 01:46:21
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The Linden 🌳 :
thank you so much. your videos help me understand where I came from, help me mitigate the behaviors I learned so I can be a better version for my kids. I'm so unbelievably grateful to you.
2026-04-22 21:35:10
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Traveler :
Exactly 💯
2026-05-10 03:39:21
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Truly_Sage :
I think there is a gap in understanding what secure attachment is and how to achieve it.
2026-04-27 13:13:15
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✨𝔏𝔞𝔐𝔲𝔰𝔢𝔰✨ :
I knew it 💔
2026-05-10 03:03:32
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Jorden Gribble :
I’m so grateful for your videos ! ❤️
2026-04-23 13:54:23
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The Orctistic Absence :
word.
2026-04-22 00:53:48
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PetiteManse :
Thank you so much for this
2026-04-22 20:37:14
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Rachel :
Spot on
2026-05-10 12:31:57
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Brittany Ogus :
This is so good
2026-04-26 19:05:22
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annettesukhram :
So we are to bring up perfect kids in an imperfect world? Parents and families are getting criticized while the most criticism comes from friends, peers, bosses and people in general. Lmao.
2026-04-23 23:27:09
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uh oh :
my first therapist changed my life when he told me that families didn't need to put you down to keep you humble. "are you actually humble if someone is doing it to you?" I will literally never forget that moment.
2026-04-21 17:17:20
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Say Myname :
My mother and father fostered an environment of pseudo hostility yet if I made ONE comment about them, they could NOT take it. So it was ok for them to constantly “joke” with me but if I did it. Whooooa! End of the world!
2026-04-23 03:17:07
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user3638012712551 :
Comments r trump supporters no doubt
2026-04-21 18:43:01
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