@coach.ryan0: When they pulled away… you chased. A secure person? They would’ve let them go. Because if someone needs distance from you to feel okay… they’re not your person… they’re your pattern. Stop trying to prove your worth to someone who’s avoiding connection. Break the cycle. The Avoidant Detox: Stop Thinking About Them (4/27, $99, lifetime replay) #AvoidantAttachment #TraumaBond #DatingAdvice #AttachmentStyles #SelfRespect
That's what I did, and I got the classic "If I can't give you what you need then you should leave". And that's what I did. I feel broken and angry cause I feel like this is what she wanted me to do but wasn't able to do it herself. But I'm proud of myself for walking away and I know that one day I will see this more clearly. The only thing i regret is sending the last emotional message to say goodbye but I wanted to make sure I wasn't going to ruminate about "maybe she doesn't know how much i cared" and wanted to walk away knowing I have tried my best. Your videos are helping me going through the storm 🥹
2026-04-22 09:09:32
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Bob spacedenier :
this wouldnt work because when they are in a deactivation phase they just want put asap. stating an ultimatum in that moment is a guaranteed break up, everytime. do not make ultimatums with an avoidant unless you are okay with them breaking up with you.
2026-05-04 19:28:36
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2026-04-24 00:38:35
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هَيدي :
I was once with a DA.... I just let him crack on when he left! Never spoken since 👍
2026-05-19 12:35:31
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