I learned the “hole in the cup theory” and it helped me move on and not give a fuck anymore
2026-04-24 16:48:44
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Coco :
So you’re telling me they are fans, got it
2026-04-22 23:14:23
5786
CDA 2.0 | SAHM 💕🗝️ :
Once I realized this , it was easier to get over. It’s like… getting over.. nothing
2026-04-24 10:54:09
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EM :
The best explanation in all my years of obsessively researching narcissism
2026-04-22 15:39:41
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..bonitaapplebum :
I felt like he didn’t want me to have real emotions, especially when my emotions didn’t align with his.
2026-04-23 19:04:29
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amydelatorre711 :
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years. He never knew me at all. Wild! I was his mirror. His mother. His support. But he never saw me at all
2026-04-25 11:11:13
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Rymma | твоя ноунейм артистка :
Exactly, I after breakup I realised that he didn’t even really know ME
2026-04-23 04:41:12
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Lori :
This is why I felt like a doll with him, not an actual person 😔
2026-04-27 04:07:45
161
Jason Recovery & Clarity :
Knowing they never loved you is one thing… breaking the bond and walking away the right way is where most people struggle
2026-04-23 01:30:44
353
FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
She stopped loving me on the 2nd day of our honeymoon.
2026-04-22 01:17:41
284
Watching the watcher :
DARVO is their weapon. They have a fractured center of ego and need your identity and skills to operate in their mind’s control. They sync their brains with you and train you. If you are lonely are haven’t been complimented much; beware. The key difference between a good person who they mimic and these monsters is that a good person will respect your boundaries and will not use DARVO. The covert narcissist will use DARVO
2026-04-22 18:33:47
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NayNay🍒 :
I realized this after being with my bd for 5 years….he didn’t know a thing about me 😅
2026-04-24 19:35:17
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hautefood :
10 years. they didnt know where i grew up
2026-04-26 02:23:54
10
SANJA :
But he repeated I love you so many times, it started sounding like hello .
2026-05-28 03:19:38
18
sacredrebellion :
my husband learned how i loved and performed it back to me. essentially i fell in love with myself….then he slowly pulled the rug out from under me
2026-04-27 22:56:48
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leyla :
This is exactly what it felt like though. Completely hollow, like a puppet playing it's part.. but ultimately empty. Behind the "love" I always felt bitterness, anger, resentment. There were moments where it was quieter, but it was always there.
2026-04-24 22:12:31
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ebony🌙🍒 :
Really bad when it’s a parent.. just starting to disentangle at 29.
2026-06-06 05:09:49
20
Naturaliztas :
I can’t count the number of times I have actually said: “I’m a different and separate person from you” He has never seen me as such
2026-06-20 18:06:33
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stephaniecayson25 :
Best analogy Ive heard
2026-05-27 01:43:44
16
CarolineAbbott Bronze :
No hate like conditional love 🥰
2026-06-16 09:25:51
9
RMAF :
It felt so real, it’s a sad reality. 19 years of giving someone my all and knowing it wasn’t reciprocated. It’s tragic
2026-04-24 08:11:19
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Laura :
100%! it only took me a couple of months to realise my ex had no idea how to make me feel better when i was sad/stressed
2026-04-22 21:54:57
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user377049064543 :
I have never heard it explained in such an understandable way.
2026-05-17 17:57:01
18
Darce :
what about the kids, do they love their kids?
2026-04-23 04:46:14
49
borigo :
Holyshit
2026-05-13 21:21:29
18
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