@keshaspeaks: A lot of women have blamed themselves for intimacy issues that were never just about libido. Sometimes the attraction is still there… but the desire is gone because the relationship no longer feels like a place to soften. That's a very different conversation 😏 #KeshaSpeaks #IntimacyInMarriage #EmotionalLabor #RelationshipClarity #WomenHealing
Husband here. This might be the video I needed to see. I need to see her pov. Thank you for this.
2026-04-22 21:35:09
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Lulu Jay688 :
I have the same issue. I'm always stressed and overwhelmed and I have no desire to. id rather go to sleep after a long day.
2026-04-23 14:31:12
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TiTi :
Thank you for putting language to something that's so hard to explain! Until I heard this, it felt like I'm standing on one end of a bridge that's broken in the middle and I can't figure out why I can't get to the other side! Sigh...
2026-09-19 16:05:40
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OliveandDozier :
I’m going through a separation after 16 years of marriage. We were separated living together at first, but I recently moved out to give her space and clarity on what she needs moving forward. And this really opened my eyes. It finally clicked why she stopped initiating, and honestly, a lot of that falls on me. I wasn’t truly seeing her anymore. I stopped giving her comfort, a safe space, and that sense of softness, especially after we had kids. For years, she thought it was her libido or hormones, but now I see it was about how she was experiencing me day to day. I’m going to try to share this with her. I’ve been using this time apart to really work on myself, and this helped more than you know. Thank you.
2026-04-22 22:43:35
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Jaquinta Rene :
It’s because it was one more thing on the “to-do” list to make sure everyone is happy. It’s exhausting.
2026-04-24 19:50:04
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Rocío 😬 :
My partner makes me feel beautiful and desired and I feel bad for losing the desire. At my age though, I know perimenopause plays a part. However, feeling like I have to mother him is definitely a huge part of it too. Thank you for the validation. Glad I’m not the only one .
2026-04-22 12:02:40
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justadude_99 :
This was the first video I ever watched of you and it helped me so much. Me and my girlfriend have broken up so many times and sex was always an issue we have had. I’ve never pressured her or anything, but we’ve had so many talks about it. I honestly just thought she wasn’t attracted to me anymore. We got back together this time and I randomly stumbled across this video. I sent it to her and asked if she felt like this in the past and she started crying and said she never knew the words to put with how she felt. We had a long talk and I told her I was sorry and wanted to be better. We’re more healthy now than we have Been in 7 years. Thank you so much. I watch your videos every single time they come across. You’ve helped both of us so much. I saw this video exactly when I needed to and I’m glad I can see my part in things. We both have made a a lot of mistakes, but I’m grateful I know he she was feeling. Don’t stop making your videos and don’t stop speaking. Your words matter to me and so many others. Thank you.
2026-08-26 13:01:19
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She's a Cobb :
I feel so seen heard and understood ❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-23 15:45:34
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latifahreid7 :
Am I married? nope
do i have kids? nope
did I sit through this and learnt some stuff? absolutely!
2026-04-27 23:55:45
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Bernard :
I just wanna say you're dope for telling us this story. From both sides, his point of view and yours without diminishing his character or his feelings. I think that's very cool.
2026-04-24 00:19:37
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Shakirah Monae Way :
It is hard to desire a person you low key mothering . Gurl why you in my business 🤣😩
2026-08-29 01:07:30
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♥️Denmark🇩🇰 :
I Toke care of everything and everyone, but I was the only one taking care of me and I had nothing left to give to myself.
2026-06-01 07:25:12
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ShvetaHP :
Please dive more into this..
2026-06-28 13:50:43
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samantha_creates :
i immediately sent to my husband i hope he watches the whole thing god
2026-05-07 14:07:38
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annacheerio0 :
Thank you for this!
2026-04-24 15:47:23
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vanysdior :
thank you.
2026-05-05 20:12:10
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brookejackson955 :
Same
2026-04-30 04:41:41
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Miss J :
Man! You’ve like you’ve expressed how I feel but can’t put it in words
2026-07-15 19:33:24
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mtschutz :
pls like my comment so i could see this again
2026-06-03 05:17:57
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Vidaury Rivera :
My wife and I had this conversation. I’m now putting in the work so she doesn’t feel that way . We are getting back to how we live to be
2026-04-22 22:43:39
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Avanoe11esmom :
Thank you. This makes so much sense. My relationship just ended after 14 years. I’ve felt this way for the past 6 years. Now I’m understanding. 😭
2026-06-27 02:07:06
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Doche Adonis :
I’m a husband. No kids yet but thank you so much for your transparency!
2026-04-24 02:22:49
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Jerrod Jessie :
Was your feeling communicated?
2026-05-03 22:00:21
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user8235780185723 :
This is the language.
2026-05-27 05:16:07
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Ashley :
This is so 100% spot on
2026-05-25 03:11:27
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