Kesha Speaks
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Tuesday 21 April 2026 23:50:35 GMT
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Lulu Jay688 :
I have the same issue. I'm always stressed and overwhelmed and I have no desire to. id rather go to sleep after a long day.
2026-04-23 14:31:12
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LucyDrop :
I’m a mother of six and I have tried everything….. anxiety meds, hrt, peptides…..you name it. I really think it’s just straight up stress. I have zero desire. Like I could live without sex for the rest of my life, however it’s ruining my marriage. Idk how to fix this 😩
2026-04-23 19:37:13
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OliveandDozier :
I’m going through a separation after 16 years of marriage. We were separated living together at first, but I recently moved out to give her space and clarity on what she needs moving forward. And this really opened my eyes. It finally clicked why she stopped initiating, and honestly, a lot of that falls on me. I wasn’t truly seeing her anymore. I stopped giving her comfort, a safe space, and that sense of softness, especially after we had kids. For years, she thought it was her libido or hormones, but now I see it was about how she was experiencing me day to day. I’m going to try to share this with her. I’ve been using this time apart to really work on myself, and this helped more than you know. Thank you.
2026-04-22 22:43:35
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thegrouchyone :
Husband here. This might be the video I needed to see. I need to see her pov. Thank you for this.
2026-04-22 21:35:09
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Jaquinta Rene :
It’s because it was one more thing on the “to-do” list to make sure everyone is happy. It’s exhausting.
2026-04-24 19:50:04
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She's a Cobb :
I feel so seen heard and understood ❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-23 15:45:34
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SugaSuga :
when I found out my husband had been cheating on me I was no longer sexually attracted to him
2026-04-23 16:13:47
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Katie Matthews :
I think the hardest thing for me would be telling him this but then it not going anywhere after
2026-04-22 18:18:24
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Vidaury Rivera :
My wife and I had this conversation. I’m now putting in the work so she doesn’t feel that way . We are getting back to how we live to be
2026-04-22 22:43:39
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Doche Adonis :
I’m a husband. No kids yet but thank you so much for your transparency!
2026-04-24 02:22:49
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Kimothy :
i blamed myself for years for not wanting intimacy, i wondered what was wrong with me. i now realize after divorce how much he expected me to mother him and how I didn't feel emotionally safe. 3 yrs into a new relationship there's safety, communication, validation, affection, attraction and desire.
2026-04-22 01:39:03
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Bernard :
I just wanna say you're dope for telling us this story. From both sides, his point of view and yours without diminishing his character or his feelings. I think that's very cool.
2026-04-24 00:19:37
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Rella_Danyall 💋 :
Somebody like my comment so I can come back to this video.
2026-04-25 05:33:20
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Rocío 😬 :
My partner makes me feel beautiful and desired and I feel bad for losing the desire. At my age though, I know perimenopause plays a part. However, feeling like I have to mother him is definitely a huge part of it too. Thank you for the validation. Glad I’m not the only one .
2026-04-22 12:02:40
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♥️Denmark🇩🇰 :
I Toke care of everything and everyone, but I was the only one taking care of me and I had nothing left to give to myself.
2026-06-01 07:25:12
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latifahreid7 :
Am I married? nope do i have kids? nope did I sit through this and learnt some stuff? absolutely!
2026-04-27 23:55:45
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Ceddy Ced :
Husband here...thanks Kesha. Very interesting POV, but thank you as it gives me the perspective from the wife's POV where my wife is unable to communicate this to me. Thanks for reminding me of my purpose and why for my wife, marriage, etc. I will continue to stand and man-up for my marriage. Im really trying to love my wife like Christ loved the church. ❤️🙏🏾
2026-04-24 09:54:17
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LimeSoda🍋🟩🥤 :
My cup is EMPTY.
2026-05-18 15:15:43
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mtschutz :
pls like my comment so i could see this again
2026-06-03 05:17:57
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Victoria Ama 🇨🇲🇨🇩 :
You just described my current situation 😩 only difference is no children yet 😩😩😩
2026-05-31 08:08:43
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fabulousthangz :
I thought I was Asexual, nope I was overwhelmed by everything. Glad I figured it out, I know I’m not broken 😁 it make sense, my mind and my body was on the same page 🥰
2026-04-22 00:23:05
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Sir Charles :
the low key mothering thing... the way I connect with that is just... when you're low key parenting your partner it just ruins the ability to be soft... its almost like if u do the wrong thing then its like a teenager getting mad at u
2026-05-01 17:07:48
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Shemane | Serial Hobbyist :
fyp is getting a little too close to home 😅
2026-04-29 20:49:54
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LadyD :
this is soo deep and true....damnnnnn
2026-05-13 22:50:51
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DJ :
Once again you hit the nail on the head. I feel so validated hearing how you explain these things. I experienced all that you said but couldn’t never have said it so well.
2026-04-22 00:43:22
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