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knowlyyz4s1 :
Just because you people want to live a western life don’t start complaining about Islam trying to defend your haram ways. Islam is definitely not like how you or the people around you are portraying. You want to be a gori so bad but you forget goris accept Islam the most. Islam is a fast growing religion and ask Allah to guide you before it’s too late. As much study you did for this dunya maybe do some study for the akhirah
2026-04-22 07:07:23
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username107262810173619 :
Ohhhhhhmygodddss ofc a convert said this 🙄 as someone raised by a convert mom they all think they know Islam better than ppl who were born and raised with it since birth. They believe in a delusional version of Islam that exists only in their minds and not in reality
2026-05-13 03:37:08
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Armina :
Non mena muslims are soooo racisttt they think our culture is inherently patriarchal. And want to be us so bad.
2026-07-03 13:50:59
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Anonymous Anon 💚🤍💔 :
its culture not religion but if u change ur religion in that culture they will kill u becolause the religion says so...
2026-04-29 11:27:06
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Staceek8.95 :
You took the words right out of my mind girl 👏🏼 thank you 🫶🏻
2026-04-22 02:02:15
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Naam :
it’s known that south asian cultures have crazy traditions and expectations towards women especially for married women and most of them try to use Islam to justify it which is totally false. It probably happens in other cultures too but not as much as south asians so believe.
2026-04-22 18:38:29
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None of your business :
Which Islam are you referring to, this man made toxic religion, which benefits men only
2026-05-16 08:17:35
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janamarre :
Thank you for speaking up 🙏 Stay strong 💕
2026-04-25 20:55:35
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Kay | The First to Heal :
Never stop speaking on this!
2026-04-22 15:14:00
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sweet.black.tea :
Preach. Using brain is very important. Thinking logically and not believing everything we hear, see, or read is important. Allah created our brains to think. Or we end up like the many Muslims/Christians/Other Religions population who think questioning the religion and thinking is blasphemy. They become like MAGA or like Wahhabis.
2026-04-22 14:59:26
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Sara 🇵🇸🍉 :
Actually frrr
2026-04-24 03:05:32
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Ammaarah Cassim :
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2026-04-23 13:53:57
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KimiiH :
@sxnmx
2026-04-22 15:09:06
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Flossiebelle :
💯💯💯
2026-04-22 16:30:16
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t54y5t :
Preach! It’s so invalidating when muslims say this. Religion can absolutely be oppressive. Just because you had a good experience with religion, doesn’t mean others do. People should be able to speak freely about their experiences. And even if it was culture, does that make it any better? What do we achieve by saying it’s “culture”? Muslims need to stop getting offended and start realizing there are real problems in the muslim community.
2026-04-22 01:15:49
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Malak Abuzeid :
Your pain is real, and I'm so sorry. No child deserves to be hurt like this, and yes, the Quran commands us to honor parents, but scholars are very clear: that command does not mean you accept abuse. Parents can be ungrateful and cruel to their children too, and there are scholars today who speak openly about toxic and abusive parents and how to protect yourself from them. Obedience has limits. Your wellbeing matters in Islam. On the "deficient in intelligence" point, I want you to know that many hadith scholars actually classify that specific narration as weak (da'if). It doesn't hold up to scrutiny. The very first person the Prophet ﷺ ran to after the terror of the first revelation trembling and overwhelmed was Khadijah (RA). He didn't just consult her, he followed her judgment completely. She assessed the situation, reassured him, and led him to Waraqah ibn Nawfal. A man who supposedly believed women were intellectually deficient would not have done that. That one moment alone speaks volumes. As for the broader issues, patriarchy and male supremacy didn't stay outside the door when tafasir were being written. Scholars were human, shaped by their cultures and times, and some interpretations reflect that more than they reflect revelation. Separating the tradition of men from the Word of God is hard work, but it's necessary, and many Muslim women scholars are doing it today. Don't let the people who failed you also steal your relationship with God. You deserve to find Islam on your own terms.
2026-04-22 08:30:19
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ℳ :
You are right but Islam or religion ain’t the problem, people who weaponise religion are. I live with such people myself but I never blamed Islam for this. Because there might be few Hadiths like these but what about so many rights that Islam gave women that no one likes to talk about in “Muslim community”. They only uses those specific hadiths that benefits them.
2026-04-22 04:24:02
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✮⋆𝐬𝐭★𝐫𝐛𝐨𝐲✮⋆ :
I've spent almost ten years in alimmiyah, and I have absolutely noticed which hadith are used far more frequently than others. Just as there are hadith to tell you to be obedient to your parents, there are hadith to the PARENTS telling them they MUST be gentle. There are hadith emphasising kindness. And yet, they're not as known or used as the ones about obedience. It's incredibly clear when you look at them ALL that the Muslim community has become absolutely rotten by, ironically, picking out the hadith that would lead to blind obedience and leaving out the hadith that are warning them against this exact same thing. And Islam itself isn't an entity, what IS Islam is the way people practice it, and when this rotten version has become so spread, that IS the Islam we have now, especially when other Muslims refuse to openly condemn them and instead make excuses or try to overlook it.
2026-04-28 10:35:06
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RageBait100 :
I'm sorry if i made a comment without taking into account your own trauma. it was never meant to come off as a way to hurt you. only as someone who's come to Islam and again from a mexican culture. now being Muslim and married to a Pakistani man. to hear his mom talk about the things she had experienced during her times when india and Pakistan split and now she's BIG on tell all of us and he grandchildren to have that connection with God. Pray but LIVE in a way that's Halal. LOVE in a way that's Halal. even when she had horrible experiences she doesn't blame the religion she herself even blames the culture of how small minded those people were because they refuse to be with the times. not saying it wasn't hard and drastic for even her to accept these modern times. but again, it's CULTURE, people using their own views and culture to modify and bend Islam to their own ways same way with how people be doing the bible. they don't like these versus or take certain versus onto their OWN perspective and then teach the religion with THEIR OPINIONS not the actual way and like you said, a way that fits with 2026 not 7th century time..
2026-04-22 05:51:55
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thequietmuslimah_ :
That’s still cultural practices and ppl twisting Islam to suit their own agenda….so yeh that’s not Islam…I’ve never been taught any of that cuz I was raised around ppl who practised Islam properly and who weren’t controlling…that’s not me denying ur experience or trauma, it’s just me saying ur experience wasn’t Islam, it was ur parents controlling/abusing u and using Islam wrongly as justification - which usually is an Asian Muslim thing stemming from their cultural practises and own versions of “Islam” they have created
2026-04-22 10:01:45
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Sarah :
You are right- they do influence each other. But I also think that just with anything else, regardless of religion or even culture, bad shit happens. I think these people have USED religious texts to their own advantages. People use many things to hide the wrong they do. I also strongly believe that we should do better to address these things in the Muslim community. For example, sexual abuse. It is common among every type of religious or cultural groups. It is not just a “Muslim” problem. It is a human problem- a sick one. The issue is when the Muslim community does not want to address it!!!
2026-04-28 20:28:06
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JM :
Rigid dogma generates rigid behaviour. Gender inequality in dogma creates gender discrimination in culture.
2026-04-25 05:50:14
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مَرْيَم 𓂀𓋹𓆣 :
They act like over 25 Muslim countries got the same culture lol
2026-05-25 13:00:21
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