It hurts more when you have siblings who are able to have that type of relationship with your parents. It’s like damn so they’re capable of loving. They just don’t want to love me.
2026-04-23 02:47:59
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Genx :
The environment taught us how to become the perfect loner.
2026-04-22 03:52:17
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Auntie Lindsey 🇺🇸 🇬🇧 :
Exactly me 💜
2026-06-13 20:34:33
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colecutzbrand :
Is it possible to heal AND keep your distance… or do you have to reconnect to truly heal?
2026-04-22 03:01:20
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Tecara🖤 :
"They taught me how to live without them, so I did!" *mic drop🎤
2026-04-22 16:00:38
257
TROUBLLE SOULL :
I swear if you didn’t grew up like this won’t even know the half
2026-04-22 15:38:24
360
Slab Alott :
hardest part of learning myself is learning i really dont give a fuq about nobody honestly 😭
2026-04-23 12:05:48
45
coachchellib :
Absolute FACTS!!! I adapted to my childhood emotional environment, and then had to FIGHT to end “survival mode” as an adult!!😔
2026-04-22 09:18:34
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Juels HL :
I’m stone cold because of it
2026-04-23 00:06:53
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EMD_123 :
“They taught me how to live without them so I did “
2026-04-22 21:57:14
52
MEL :
Right 💯 i get tired of explaining this to people 🙄
2026-04-22 11:17:33
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RunninonEmPA :
"I didn't create distance, I just continued what was already there."
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2026-04-23 16:30:26
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MacTra :
I grew up not knowing how to really celebrate people cuz I was never celebrated
2026-04-22 23:14:38
165
Woeisjess :
Does your mom ever hug you now and it feels weird? It’s crazy because I’ve always yearned that and still feel like I do at times.. but when my mom tries to show me any affection now I feel so uncomfortable and I don’t want it from her. Affection in general feels foreign.. but from her it feels uncomfortable.
2026-04-24 01:46:07
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Jamal Parker631 :
“That distance that we got didnt start when i was an adult, it started when i was a child.” Thats the part people dont get.
2026-04-23 15:00:25
45
Renaissance Woman :
I detached real early. I’m learning how to self regulate now in my late 30s
2026-04-22 23:42:20
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🙉🙈🙊Circle City :
is your mama Deborah
Damn dis shit so real!!
2026-04-27 16:07:35
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Katja Andersson :
i raised my self😳
2026-05-07 16:14:37
8
Jay :
“I didn’t create the distance, it was already there”
2026-04-23 00:35:28
69
Cece :
They taught me how to live without them, so I did. 💯
2026-04-23 22:59:13
12
Maria :
Same 😔 taught me to depend on no one. No one is coming to save you, became a people pleaser for years. Now I’m healing, setting boundaries and protecting my own peace.
2026-04-22 11:15:54
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Jkickz :
My mom’s room was always locked. I had no one.
2026-04-26 01:02:34
9
JuslinWallas :
Dang! He got me again 🥹🥹🥹
2026-04-22 12:24:56
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Amber 🇨🇦 :
I’m 39 and the last time I felt like my mother loved me was when I was 4. 35 years has made me this way. Now she’s just somebody that I used to know.
2026-04-22 05:07:29
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hollymoonbow :
My childhood was very similar, I feel this.
2026-04-23 02:44:33
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