yanii :
i agree, it's not just i am disregarding his efforts but for me it's not enough if it doesn't make you feel safe or feel loved. For me, I believe that relationship is reciprocal and full of adjustments. Kasi diba, if alam mo naman na kung ano yung gusto nung partner mo, why would waste time to not to do that? Na-experience ko na kasi ito eh HAHAHA I'm always telling him how I want to be loved but he always do the opposite. He even said that we can go with the flow and honestly, it's exhausting. I did my best to adjust, to understand him, even when it's complicated, i tried my best para lang hindi nya maramamdaman sakin yung naramdaman nya sa past nya, tapos ganong klase lang ng treatment makukuha ko? No way. I believe that love should be unconditional but kapag ikaw na yung nasa sitwasyon na ganon, kahit gaano mo pa kamahal yung isang tao, kahit gaano ka pa ka-understanding, mapapagod at mapapagod ka din kasi inaasahan mo yung taong yon to be your safe space pero imbes na ganon, sya pa yung pumapagod sayo at nagpaparamdam sayo ng bigat ng damdamin.
2026-04-25 13:18:17