@burned_notbroken: if they give an inch, give an inch back. don’t take a mile and run with it. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #breakuptok #relationshiprepair #emotionalsafety

xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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desserts_and_books
delicious books :
what if they said "I want to be with you, I just don't if I can" and then ignored me for 72 hours
2026-06-07 13:07:48
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canb1585
canb1585 :
What if they say they don’t want to reconcile, but they miss their best friend and want a friendship? It’s so hard to be friends with someone you’re in love with.
2026-04-22 20:15:32
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cuteapplepieeee
Apple :
I still don’t understand how a person can do that to someone they love. I’m also tired of the dynamics, but I would never want to put space between us…even though they make me mad, I still want to talk to them. I think a person does that only if they keep tabs on their partner, like scores and try to compare them with the ideal person they have on their mind
2026-06-19 14:36:31
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meky_89
Merlyn Q :
Hes opening to me with jokes, messages about things not related to our son and even about our son things together. He’s sleeping back in the bed with me. Im giving him his space either way through the day and when he’s home i treat him neutral but warm and let him move at his own pace.
2026-04-22 16:18:09
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push_2007
Push :
Am I allowed to initiate contact (I am the dumpee) after giving her almost 2 months of space? Like just saying I’m open to talk if she is, no pressure and all? Or should I wait for her to reach out
2026-04-22 15:59:03
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billyd505
W Duffy :
CJ thank you for all you do, i have learned alot from you.
2026-04-22 15:43:41
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jb_pnw_slots
Joshua :
Can I private message you? My marriage is hanging on by a thread and I could really use advice
2026-05-17 17:05:39
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bradley.root0
Bradley Root :
Can I DM you?? I need some help with my relationship😭
2026-05-17 19:54:12
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jx07509
jc :
this is where I'm currently at
2026-04-22 15:58:52
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broch_tuarach
Verbena :
What if he initiates contact out of coparenting obligations then tells me things about his day his job how stressful it might be that is unrelated to the kids…??
2026-06-14 18:25:56
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youwish24
🇨🇦 FF :
I am blocked since a month literally everywhere
2026-04-22 20:52:15
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editorstefan
Stef :
Or they just found that grass isn’t actually greener on the other side?
2026-06-20 16:12:54
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cadunn75
cadunn75 :
You have given me such insight. I sent you a message…it’s pretty long to give some context
2026-04-22 16:46:55
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hawk2626
Hawk2626 :
No, they learned the grass was not greener and they’re coming back to you. However, they’ll do it again if they see if the grass may be greener again. Don’t do it ,don’t reply.
2026-04-24 17:56:20
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xambers43
Amber Duncan :
What if you had a great relationship but your partner needed space for mental health?
2026-04-25 21:32:10
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aaronbrewer12
Aaron Brewer :
Thank you. I needed to hear this today.
2026-05-24 17:13:59
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acadena510
Alex Edward Cadena :
She’s messaged me out the blue yesterday, saying “I’ve been dreaming non stop about you, love you and miss you lots” and proceeded to want to plan to see eachother on my birthday May 10th. What’s does this mean?
2026-04-27 17:43:50
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nanocreator
Sir Nano :
Thank you for everything. I am working on rebuilding trust with my wife. Thank you for creating this video. I sent you a message for context.
2026-04-23 19:51:16
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phiana.l.tang
Phiana L. Tang :
At first he was very upset and pulled back, cold and stern. But I stayed calm and consistent and not needy of his time. Eventually he warmed up to me more and more. We talk everyday, he always answers me. He knows I want to get back together and that I love him. He also said we can’t ever be friends again..
2026-06-13 05:19:47
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rob4750
Rob :
Strong message. I made the same mistake. Engagement was happening and I opened up my heart and it landed as manipulative. Be consistent and focus on the work you! That’s been my experience as all may vary. Thanks for sharing.
2026-05-16 22:41:11
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los2pinches
Los2Pinches :
She asked for a small favor 2 days ago. I did it and she said appreciate you without the I. Is that a good sign??. The same night I told her I loved her and missed her and a few other words and was ghosted. Is that still a good sign?.
2026-04-27 06:08:16
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andalorooo
Diletta Andaloro :
Can I message you for advice?
2026-04-22 14:56:27
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elcb201518
Emma 🩷 :
He said he doesn’t know.. I don’t know what to do with that
2026-04-22 17:05:01
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lindseypiazza2
lindseypiazza2 :
How do you tell if they are a burned out pursuer or have an avoidant attachment??
2026-04-23 22:57:36
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