@elly.psychologist: If your mood depends on someone else’s emotions, building self-trust is key. When you learn to notice your own anxiety and gently turn your focus back to yourself, you start to break the habit of relying on others for emotional regulation. Self-trust grows each time you remind your nervous system that you’re safe and capable of looking after your own wellbeing. With consistency, you’ll find you’re less affected by others’ moods and more anchored in your own sense of calm. Self-trust is something you can build, one small step at a time #selftrust #trustyourself #selflove #therapytok #therapysessions

Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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_marisa1973
MARISA1973 :
Im relying on chat gpt at the moment im lost
2026-04-24 20:14:06
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vanita.chetty
Vanita Chetty :
So true. I am so tired of this. God grant me the strength to overcome.
2026-05-06 16:07:15
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hachi_ko.6
pich_fre :
please just read this book. The Truth About Manifestation by Daniel Rowe on Amazon. you'll get it once you start
2026-05-13 10:53:06
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nonfiction333
nonfiction :
Just get to the point
2026-05-08 20:34:36
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aishkay811
aishkay811 :
Wow! No one has ever explained it like this 🤯
2026-04-23 19:40:19
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magnusmatt
Matt Magnus :
Nice idea, but… I’m in an office with one other who will turn immediatly, on a whim. My nervous system is in bits. I can’t remove myself from that office, and i just have to work through it.
2026-04-23 21:09:14
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vonethreenineee888
Asta :
it's my parents!
2026-05-06 04:56:50
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quietlifecollection
Quietlife | Overthinking Minds :
This is so real… you don’t even notice it happening at first. You start adjusting to other people’s moods, reading into everything, trying to keep things steady… and slowly you drift away from your own centre. Coming back to yourself feels quieter, but so much safer 🤍
2026-04-25 10:20:06
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sharon_b20
MySharona :
My mood is dependent on the weather
2026-05-17 02:24:19
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whatdoyouthinkwdyt
Kelly :
I will try, I'm such an empath that my body is physically affected by others.
2026-04-25 06:41:54
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iamvox1000
Vox :
Emotional independence is critical :)
2026-05-14 08:57:38
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jocelynnis24
jocelynnis24 :
I literally just go quiet and don’t acknowledge the other person. I don’t react or overexplain myself anymore.
2026-05-07 16:56:55
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sandiejohno
Sandie :
Hi Elly can I ask is this “normal “ to be affected by others moods ? I just felt for years I was just different is it very common ie are More people like this than not? I’m guessing coming from divorced parents I was on the look out constantly is that right ? X th u xxx
2026-04-24 05:52:31
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itsxreb
reb :
I got this video right when I needed it
2026-05-10 19:56:01
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paulaalmeida093
Paula Almeida :
good advice. Thank you
2026-04-24 13:33:02
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evabelgium
Eva 🦄 -my take on the tea! :
Is that why some people constantly try to make others feel better and forget about themselves? Asking for a friend. The friend is me!
2026-04-24 20:14:31
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johanna.a.ruiz
Johanna.A.Ruiz :
This is so powerful!!!!! I need this
2026-05-03 13:48:06
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2_wiktoria_5
Wicia :
but for me it is that when my partner is not okay i over think that it is my fault. i am trying to figure out why when he is just shutting me down. then I write try to call him and it affects my mood. when I stop trying to figure out what is wrong he gets defensive and says I don't care about him, or gets more mad that I am not trying. so I Don't know what I can do
2026-04-24 23:48:20
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veiledandwandering
VeiledAndWandering :
Step back, take a deep breath and mentally move, invision yourself walking away from that situation and closing the door behind you, pickup somthing completely different a book, its actualy mind over matter if you practice that often, force yourself to smile and concentrate on somthing that is bringing you calmness or happiness. Works for me. x
2026-04-25 08:06:48
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juliedrifting4
juliedrifting :
This call out 😭😭😭 I’m trying to be better, thanks for the advice 🙏🏻❤️
2026-04-24 14:22:06
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indigo_oblivions
Indigo :
I started treating my nervous system like a tired cranky toddler and not *me* if that makes sense? it makes it easier for me to keep track of myself and not feel as much guilt or shame
2026-05-01 19:39:41
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anticipate.app
Anticipate | Burnout Recovery :
Learning to do kind things for myself when I start spiraling has been life changing. It wasn’t easy as the first, but oh boy does this reframing works
2026-04-23 13:57:38
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paardenplanner
Slimmer leven met paarden :
So in stead of calming yourself by calming the other person, you calm yourself with something else that distracts you? Isnt that replacing the first coping strategy with another one? I'm just trying to understand, I dont mean this in a bad way
2026-04-24 06:47:30
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