@elly.psychologist: If your mood depends on someone else’s emotions, building self-trust is key. When you learn to notice your own anxiety and gently turn your focus back to yourself, you start to break the habit of relying on others for emotional regulation. Self-trust grows each time you remind your nervous system that you’re safe and capable of looking after your own wellbeing. With consistency, you’ll find you’re less affected by others’ moods and more anchored in your own sense of calm. Self-trust is something you can build, one small step at a time #selftrust #trustyourself #selflove #therapytok #therapysessions
So true. I am so tired of this. God grant me the strength to overcome.
2026-05-06 16:07:15
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pich_fre :
please just read this book. The Truth About Manifestation by Daniel Rowe on Amazon. you'll get it once you start
2026-05-13 10:53:06
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nonfiction :
Just get to the point
2026-05-08 20:34:36
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aishkay811 :
Wow! No one has ever explained it like this 🤯
2026-04-23 19:40:19
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Matt Magnus :
Nice idea, but… I’m in an office with one other who will turn immediatly, on a whim. My nervous system is in bits. I can’t remove myself from that office, and i just have to work through it.
2026-04-23 21:09:14
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Asta :
it's my parents!
2026-05-06 04:56:50
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Quietlife | Overthinking Minds :
This is so real… you don’t even notice it happening at first. You start adjusting to other people’s moods, reading into everything, trying to keep things steady… and slowly you drift away from your own centre. Coming back to yourself feels quieter, but so much safer 🤍
2026-04-25 10:20:06
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MySharona :
My mood is dependent on the weather
2026-05-17 02:24:19
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Kelly :
I will try, I'm such an empath that my body is physically affected by others.
2026-04-25 06:41:54
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Vox :
Emotional independence is critical :)
2026-05-14 08:57:38
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jocelynnis24 :
I literally just go quiet and don’t acknowledge the other person. I don’t react or overexplain myself anymore.
2026-05-07 16:56:55
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Sandie :
Hi Elly can I ask is this “normal “ to be affected by others moods ? I just felt for years I was just different is it very common ie are More people like this than not? I’m guessing coming from divorced parents I was on the look out constantly is that right ? X th u xxx
2026-04-24 05:52:31
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reb :
I got this video right when I needed it
2026-05-10 19:56:01
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Paula Almeida :
good advice. Thank you
2026-04-24 13:33:02
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Eva 🦄 -my take on the tea! :
Is that why some people constantly try to make others feel better and forget about themselves? Asking for a friend. The friend is me!
2026-04-24 20:14:31
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Johanna.A.Ruiz :
This is so powerful!!!!! I need this
2026-05-03 13:48:06
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Wicia :
but for me it is that when my partner is not okay i over think that it is my fault. i am trying to figure out why when he is just shutting me down. then I write try to call him and it affects my mood. when I stop trying to figure out what is wrong he gets defensive and says I don't care about him, or gets more mad that I am not trying. so I Don't know what I can do
2026-04-24 23:48:20
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VeiledAndWandering :
Step back, take a deep breath and mentally move, invision yourself walking away from that situation and closing the door behind you, pickup somthing completely different a book, its actualy mind over matter if you practice that often, force yourself to smile and concentrate on somthing that is bringing you calmness or happiness. Works for me. x
2026-04-25 08:06:48
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juliedrifting :
This call out 😭😭😭 I’m trying to be better, thanks for the advice 🙏🏻❤️
2026-04-24 14:22:06
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Indigo :
I started treating my nervous system like a tired cranky toddler and not *me* if that makes sense? it makes it easier for me to keep track of myself and not feel as much guilt or shame
2026-05-01 19:39:41
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Anticipate | Burnout Recovery :
Learning to do kind things for myself when I start spiraling has been life changing. It wasn’t easy as the first, but oh boy does this reframing works
2026-04-23 13:57:38
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Slimmer leven met paarden :
So in stead of calming yourself by calming the other person, you calm yourself with something else that distracts you? Isnt that replacing the first coping strategy with another one? I'm just trying to understand, I dont mean this in a bad way
2026-04-24 06:47:30
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